be friends?

agnelli SG

Hi all, this my first thread after a long absence from this forum, hope to get some advice or tips from the experts here :D Heres the situation, recently i have been buying dessert from a certain store and usually the store is manned by one staff only. On my previous 2 trips there, there was a new staff (or never seen before) working there. Think she works there like once a week or something, is there any way to be friends with the girl? First time encountering such a situation, any fellow forumers with similar experiences :)

kopiosatu SG

go more often, then chit chat lor

skeujin SG

aiyo leave the poor gal alone la.

Saint` SG

like u said .. u nv see her before despite ur frequent visits .. use that as a opener .. say u always buy here buy only see u recently ... r u new ? then carry on from there .. make casual n small talks

caleb_chiang SG

Why? she never give you extra is it?

mancha SG

If she is there everyday, and seldom see TS?

[J]erry SG

tell me where i go ask for number

and keep it myself

Jianwei92 SG

give her a sweet smile when you buy something from the shop

give you tips.. even though girls like soft toys.. but don't use money to buy love

RHluvW SG

The truth is, it's all in the head. If you think the act of just talking to her is really difficult, then you will give reasons to yourself not to talk to her. If you don't really think it's a big deal, at the end of the day, she's just another human being or simply put, she's one of many pretty girls out there.

The truth is, who cares? Life goes on. Don't think too much. Just do it.

Snookerlover SG

Just do it.

parn SG

Talk about the dessert first ok?

Remember to smile sweetly and not lecherously.

Don't worry, she's super bored working behind the dessert counter and will be more than happy to have someone willing to chat up with her.

I know how super boring it is to work behind a dessert counter.

But don't go and stare at her breasts with your self-assumed x-ray eyes, glance only when she smile back at you.

What is it that you want from her? Free desserts is it?

candiz SG

just be friendly, drop by more often, slowly you will confirm get to know her

4sg SG

Talk about the dessert first ok?

Remember to smile sweetly and not lecherously.

Don't worry, she's super bored working behind the dessert counter and will be more than happy to have someone willing to chat up with her.

I know how super boring it is to work behind a dessert counter.

But don't go and stare at her breasts with your self-assumed x-ray eyes, glance only when she smile back at you.

What is it that you want from her? Free desserts is it?

looks more like supper

Violetress SG

say "hey, u look very familar to me, i duno where see u before.." den one qns lead to the next who koes may be frenz already.. swee.

eeden. SG

say "hey, u look very familar to me, i duno where see u before.." den one qns lead to the next who koes may be frenz already.. swee.

this pick up line quite old leh.

@TS:best is to be as normal as possible

Violetress SG

this pick up line quite old leh.

@TS:best is to be as normal as possible

lol yea. old until all teeth drop. mayb u can drop handkerchief too.

yea, must be normal. cannot abnormal.

agnelli SG

wow thanks for all the replies guys! After reading through all these advices, I think the best way now is to visit a few more times when shes working there and then slowly make small talks. Haha but the problem is what should i say? Will she think that i m some weird fella and everything will fail or am i thinking too much lol

Violetress SG

can start from the shop itself? like ask ask abt the dessert or talk abt other tings den eventually ask her some qns la.

parn SG

Of course you have to be weird lor.....unless you're one of those strange uncles out there or you're trying to sell her something back.

If you're normal, then tell me why should she even take notice of you in the first place?

Violetress SG

parn u siao issit ask pple to be weird ??lol den u suggest some ideas la... c'mon!