Tried hard, but her mind was still on her old crush, which never
got resolved anyway... I didn't really lose to another guy... I
lose to the shadow of another guy... sad.
There are many better girls around, but I have to tell you there
are alot more even worse girls around.
It's your blessings that you are not associated with any worse
Singaporean girls, and you should wake up feeling so thankful that
you won't get yourself into any divorce, separation situation in
the future.
I believed you are one of those rare Singaporean guys who
strongly believed in marriage and holding onto your wedding vows
and honouring them until you expires.
Don't take this as a setback as I don't think it is. I believed
this is a warning signs that you should look and be with a better
girl next time around.
We always get tons and tons of warning signs around our lives
before the inevitable happens.
And you're one of the lucky ones who did not overcome and ignore
those warning signs.
I hope you can realised that things can always turn out to be
alot worse than what you are going through right now...but it won't
anymore cos you have realised how lucky you are to avoid it from
happening in your future. 
