Advices On Every Part of Life

last SG · 2009-03-04T21:48:54+00:00

Spruce up your appearance. It does wonders for your confidence.

MajorZvoo SG

Hello everyone here viewing my thread.
I would need some advices to go on with my life.

Yes, indeed I'm quite a shy guy and wouldn't dare to talk to much girls.
I'm also having a very very low self-esteem due to being fat.
I do seriously hope for a new change of life.

Somewhat to improve my self-esteem.
And the way I look.

I'm 15 this year anyway.
Cheers to all.
Grateful to any of you guys' advices.

MajorZvoo SG

Please do teach me what to do now.
I'm really upset with my life.

jgho83 SG

Make the gym your second home. When people see your improvement, u can then start a conversation with them how u do it. Offer to train them in the gym too.

MajorZvoo SG

So what should I be doing in gym?

BadzMaro SG

stand around and look pretty.

MajorZvoo SG

Serious please.

KrenByte SG

People, it's HeartBroken</3 la.

Music-Life SG

Maintaining a good diet and excerising regulary is the way to go. I would recommend doing the treadmill, which helps in murdering your calories, train your stamina and also strengthens your leg muscles, which can then allow you to further pursue others sports easily to help reduce your weight.

Can't help you much on looks thought.

MajorZvoo SG

How about my self-esteem?

Music-Life SG

According to you, it would seem that your low self-esteem stems from you being fat.

MajorZvoo SG

Yeah that's part of the reason.
I'm scared to talk to girls too though.

jgho83 SG

yes la i suspect u are HeartBroken too... why u wanna clone ah.

Anyway dont whine so much can or not. Go to the gym and exercise. Must be very commited. Cannot stop halfway due to laziness.

Once u see improvements, there wont be much talk about low self esteem.

TS just shut it and do something now.

Go downstairs and jog.

Dont whine here anymore.

MajorZvoo SG

I came here to seek advice.
Not to get flamed.

And I don't know who the fuck you are talking about.

MajorZvoo SG

Music Life , Are you still there?

Music-Life SG

Yeah, I'll be off soon thought. You are being flamed because your timing here is...rather off. This forum has a certain member called Heartbroken, who kept asking for help, similar to your problem, but refused to accept any help or do anything at all. As long as you are genuine, you will find help here.

Try identifying the problem you have that restricts you from talking to girls. Is it because you are afraid of what they will think or you? Or could it be that you do not know how to relate with them?

MajorZvoo SG

I don't know how to relate to them.
I don't know those girls much.
And we're in different class.
So it's hard to talk to them.
And I'm kinda shy too.

Music-Life SG

Is this problem as to you being shy to girls limited to a few or the whole general range?

If you are shy to most, perhaps you can start off closer, such as those in your class, as you have a better starting ground here since they would already know you. You should find some common areas that you and they might share. Some examples you can explore are your current subjects, music, sports or culture. Get to know their interests. By doing so you can relate better to them if both parties share the same interests in certain areas.

jgho83 SG

I don't know how to relate to them.
I don't know those girls much.
And we're in different class.
So it's hard to talk to them.
And I'm kinda shy too.

Dont waste time with this issues la. If u can click, u can click. If not, jus back off.

but slim down first.

MajorZvoo SG

Hey but there's one question I want to ask you. Before I go.
Is interval training or Cardio better?

Heard that Cardio is better.
Can't clean my doubts.

How about diet?

eeden. SG

CLONE.