Pigkazhu SG He cant save up.. He alw claim he got no enough $ to use..But he wants to get married and get a flat.. Only me scrumble to save the tiny bits.. Its not gg to be enug.. Wat shld i go?
Ferret SG Think.Do u really want to spend the rest of your life with a guy like that ?Give you the creeps, doesnt it ?
elindra SG List down his pay and his monthly expenses laFrom there can work out how much to save and what can be cut out
fairlady_xoxo SG if i were you....i would go separate ways...i don't want to always be constantly worried about his probs...and my future if i were with him...sad to say...i'd rather be realistic than suffer at the end...
soleachip SG observations @ a wedding...groom surrenders all red packets to his bride.bride: what's yours is mine. what's mine is still mine. what's ours is also mine.relatives: smart girl!
elindra SG wat is ultimatum? he need his car, puff and drink.. so he cant save.. -_-"He sure can cut down on smoking and drinking since they are both bad for healthI suggest you leave him tbh since puffing and drinking is more important than the future. He's not even taking the relationship seriously
gigabyte14 SG wat is ultimatum? he need his car, puff and drink.. so he cant save..puff and drink?useless
Pigkazhu SG letting go is alw never been easy.. we hv bn 2ger for 3 yrs plus. i hope one day he'll wake up. i'm getting real tired, i dun even want to save up now. he knows i'm earning more than him, but does tat means he do not need to do wat he's supposed to?
Q.C.Pak SG Try to have a talk to him about the future, see whats his view.Saving money takes alot of discipline.If he cares for both ur future, hope he saves.
[J]erry SG if u love him, and he love u.. maybe can stick.. butif his a fag to u, and u love him, leave him to make him wake up
Aear SG Puffing and drinking can be hobbies or vices, depending on how you look at it. How old are the both of you?
av98m SG wat is ultimatum? he need his car, puff and drink.. so he cant save.. then how? you end up paying for the flat, the wedding, and everything else? talk to him, if he still doesn't listen, dump him. easier said than done but better now than later.
