Skeujin, So u mean he could be innocent
despite what I saw. I know I could be oversensitive. Well, I’m open
to different views and that is why I’m starting this. Cos I thought
he is in the wrong, so he should take initiative. But of course I
will consider what u say n think it through.
He may be innocent or he may be guilty. Fact is that people make
mistakes but make sure you make your decision based on facts n not
assumptions.
Different people have different viewpoints for every issue.
Being in a R/S means you have to adapt n try to understand your
partner'e feelings and actions.
Sometimes people do things at the spur of the moment without
thought for his/her partner only to regret it later. Ask yourself,
did he apologise or at least sound sorry?
Communication is the most important thing a R/S should have.
Lose it and all is lost.
If you dont convey your emotions and thoughts to your partner.
All he knows about you is from second guessing and that will only
have a 50/50 chance of being right. Im almost sure your r/s is
pretty new. You dont know each other that well, if you dont
communicate, there will be more complications to come.
I am not defending him but mayb this tourist is a very old
friend from his past, in this current day n age, even strangers hug
when taking a pic. Even if they were just normal friends, would you
brush your fren off if he was to put his arm around u when your
taking a pic?
If he is cheating on you, good for you that you found out early
n kick the bastard outa your life.
But before you make your decision, COMMUNICATE.