Thks keii. that is very insightful :) and im sure of the
whole situation. it's all platonic. No romantic feeling
involve here.
Mr Andrew, yes im kaypoh for that matter. I shud have just
sit one corner, smoke one side while watchin
him do all his mistake.. watch him drop to the ground and do nothin
but watch him only..... that shud be fun.. I suppose
that is the kind of friend we should all be from now on...
Thank you all for the kind input but the quest now is
not bout how i feel for him and whether i shud start question my
platonic rs wit him.. but the thing is now.. how do
i tell him that im not comfortable havin his gf at our usual
hangout yet.. i nd time to adjust to it without hurtin his
feeling... as we all noe: Men and Ego; they are inseparable
After reading your replies, I believe you are mature enough to
understand your feelings, or at least cope with it.
When things happen, sometimes we cannot do anything about it.
What I assume, positively, Andrew would mean is that, he needs to
get a slap in the face or take a fall in order to learn.
It is a learning process which one must go through in order to
realise, no matter how much advice or suggestions have been thrown
around.
By you being uncomfortable of her intrusion to a special place
shared by you and him. You just need to tell it to his face. Be
tactful. You understand about men and their egos, which is good, so
be subtle.
Any relationship, be it platonic, family, friends, lovers,
whatever, any human relationship requires constant
communication.
