this colleague of mine, he sits behind me. so i talk to him most
of the time when we work. like when i have queries or just some
random chatting here and there while working. its normal right? and
i end up talking to him the most due to the proximity of our
sitting positions.
all was fine, untill he started messaging me. we talk in the
office, go for lunch together, that im fine since its like
interaction in the office and there are other co-workers around.
but i barely know him and he messages me random stuff like what
he’s doing and asking me about my day and telling me good night and
stuff. im fine if im closer to him or knew him longer to feel
comfortable to talk about such stuff, but i feel such
outside-office interaction isnt neccessary and i dont want it. i
dont mind talking to him, but i dont particularly enjoy it.
he spams me messages, ard 4-5 messages at one go and im quite
disturbed by it. i feel it isnt neccessary and i dont want to reply
him at all. but i just do, out of courtesy.
there was once, or so my gut feeling tells me, he purposely went
to shake my hand to wish me good luck when i was sent by the
company for some training. i think he did that just so he can touch
my hand. what the shit. i feel totally disgusted at that
thought.
he asked me to give him a massage twice already and of course i
rejected! in a polite and joking manner and he said i was
conservative. i just think its inappropriate dont you think? i
wouldnt want to touch him for goodness sake. and how inappropriate
would it seem in the office, huh?!
i may be thinking too much, or just being paranoid. naybe hes
just being friendly. if thats the case, i seriously dont mind. but
i dont see even my closer colleages messaging me like that, whats
more he’s a guy! i just feel uneasy. i hope im just thinking too
much. tell me, is that something i should be worried about?
There's nothing you should be doing, cos if there's something that
you can do, you would've already done it.
Now you only need to sit back and relax while everyone else
start to feed your imaginations and pour all their condolences to
you.
I don't like to entertain this kind of faker tale. If I really
want to spin a tale like you, I would've made it alot more spicy
and exciting in details and description.
But I don't do it, save you all the horror and trouble to go
toilet to change your underwear out of excitement. 
