I have a problem

faemehk SG

in point forms:

girl likes guy but the feelings aren't mutual.

the guy's in love with someone else of the same gender who is straight.

he thinks it's only temporary that he's feeling that way.

girl feels that it's been very long that she's felt like this to anyone.

Qns:

should she just wait out and see if he comes to his senses?

Pitot SG

No.

Fact is guy doesnt likes the girl.

Whether he is gay or straight or has temporary feelings is not relavant.

jgho83 SG

poor thing.. u fell in love with a gay..

he is born that way, so just let him be.

His world has no room for gals.

Lorry` SG

No.

Fact is guy doesnt likes the girl.

Whether he is gay or straight or has temporary feelings is not relavant.

Agree.

And even if the guy likes girls.... but it's another girl that he is liking.... not you....

Just because your a female it does not mean you stand more chances than the straight guy he loves cuz the fact is the guy you like is gay.

You should just walk away.

parn SG

in point forms:

girl likes guy but the feelings aren't mutual.

the guy's in love with someone else of the same gender who is straight.

he thinks it's only temporary that he's feeling that way.

girl feels that it's been very long that she's felt like this to anyone.

Qns:

should she just wait out and see if he comes to his senses?

She will wait for the guy no matter what has been discussed in here.

So what is your point? Are you that straight guy or are you that Homo?

Violetress SG

hmm.. for most pple i guess its hard to just "dun like someone instantly"..easier said than done.

but perhaps u can do some self-sacrifice? try to get the two of them together, den u see them tog so loving, its very heart pain.
cry it all out...n den move on to the greener pasture in life. At least u've done someting meaningful.

Den find a new crush after that...but beware dun fall into the same track else it'll b another cycle.

Get it?

All the best to u k:)

faemehk SG

haha i'd like to thank all of you guys for the advice. esp violetress (you make the most sense with the very generic information that i've given out)

Violetress SG

hei hei.. welcome! U are definately an appreciative soul...seldom see alot pple thanking others for comments..

Hmm..there r other methods too...but i guess the above method is the most easiest n fastest way to get back on track... the other way is like u can cont liking him and giving execuses to urself so that u CAN cont to like him for as long as u want, u can carry on this path for sure....but it sure can tire u out along the way..den u got the energy to get back up again..den after that u fall n get tired again(mentally, physically, or spiritually). Den u'll decide to end all this coz u r too tired to go on to cont liking him... its really easier said than done. I wonder whats ur thoughts for now?

Sometimes to like a person seems perfect..without him doing anyting..coz its like a dream that may not or may never come true...which makes it perfect. sigh.haha.

Hope u'll start to dwell on this issue lesser n lesser as days go by =]

faemehk SG

hey violetress. thanks again. i'm currently using the tiring process.

i dont think it's going to be easy for me to stop dwelling on this situation because he keeps coming to me to talk to. because i know him quite well and understand him. i think you and me think alike. haha.

thank you so much once again.

Violetress SG

hey no worries i will be visiting regularly if u need more advice, sure can ask!

haha coz ive been thru this many times b4...its really tiring. Really hope u'll be a more happy person(practically) :)

cassie SG

Accept him as a friend, like any other friends in your circle. No need to ‘terminate’ a friendship just coz he’s not into you in the Bf-Gf way.

Violetress SG

huh? where in the world did she say shes not accepting him as a fren? Well, sometimes if u want to be frenz again they also wont want lor, as if u can decide how u want tings to be. Bah.