How to become friends?

Drakerel SG

Can anyone help me? I confessed to a girl I liked since sec 1 and I am sec 2 now. Last time we used to sms each other chatting reguarly and talking on msn whenever either of us are online.Now we seldomly chat and I totally feel akward being around her. Even if I dont like her anymore know. Can anyone tell me how can I be friends with her or is it wu yao ke jiu ler?

Rednano SG

"can we start afresh? can we be just friends again?"

EvolutionPIG SG

just be normal, take it as nothing ever happened..

cantdecide SG

Only if you are totally confident you are over her then you should try and start this friendship again. It’s clear that she don’t feel the same way about you as you towards her, so she’s sort of avoiding you to make things easier. IF you still have feelings but start to talk to her again, it will only end up in nothingness.

So if you’re confident no more feelings already, then start to talk to her again. Act as if nothing happen and you two are just starting to make friends. Soon you’ll hopefully get back to the same relationship you two had,

Just be careful not to fall into the same trap twice.

The HeartBreakKid SG

jgho83 SG

Too young la. Dont even think about it. I was the same as u when I was your age, and someone also told me the same thing - too young la, dont even think about it.

I cannot disagree with that advice.

Xtremea07 SG

erm... sorry but you both in relationship or just friends?

if you are in relationship...

you and her have to talk, regardless how awkward it is. Will be uncomfortable... but at least there will be some explanation for the behaviours and you make a decision to break or not.

Guessing and waiting... really fustrating...

Anyway breaking up is not the end. Both of you still can be friends.

if you are just friends.

Just be normal, talk to her like how you did before you confessed.