Am i doing too much or is it normal ?

jesslyn1992 SG

i think you are doing too much.

you have done so much for her even though your are not her bf, how are u gg to do better next time when she's ur gf? i think u need to slow down :)

sinicker SG

these are phrases to describe what you've experienced :

1. u are a roberto.
2. u tio chop carrot head.

Fryderyk HPH SG

these are phrases to describe what you've experienced :

1. u are a roberto.
2. u tio chop carrot head.

What do you mean by that?

Detached SG

these are phrases to describe what you've experienced :

1. u are a roberto.
2. u tio chop carrot head.

Hmm.. I wouldn't say that the girl deliberately took him as a roberto right from the start..

In his case, it appears that the girl 'suffered a gradual decrease in her interest level in him'.. I could imagine if I were in her shoes, I probably would feel that this whole thing with this guy is so mundane and unexciting..

Chipperboy SG

ask for ur money back.

tell her u got receipts for everything

One_N_Only SG

i have a similiar exp and i m willing to share it with u....

i woo a girl for 2yrs and she accepted my wooing..so i continue...i also let her know my feelings but she just says its isnt time..

i have also fetch her hm which was far away from my hse...i was willing to spend tat few hrs to do tat...

in the end, she says "tell me y shld be be tgt"...if u hear tat qn suddenly i bet u dunno wat to ans...then there she was just gone all of a sudden...

now she is with a guy so much older than her...i just cannot accept tat fact tat she allowed me to woo her n still gt rejected...

the only advice i can give is

1) try to cool dwn alittle n see if she reaacts...such as u msg her lesser compared to last time and see if she realise tat n notice if she starts msging u more..

2) u shld not spend tat much to woo the gal...she might think u take her as someone who loves money...if she loves money more than u..i believe just let it go...

u can pm me anytime

parn SG

alright here`s the problem .

One month ago i met this gal who was my friend`s friend . She was kina hot and all plus my friend told me she was kina interested in me .So i started chasing her . On v-day i bought her a bag which cost 250. And treated her to a meal 100+ . Plus i drop her a msg telling her how i feel towards her . She then told me she needed more time to me my gf. Ok so i decided to give her more time and i`m still chasing her . I would pick her up from work everyday even though it`s not on the way and i have go through erpS just to fetch her home we wont even go out and eat or watever i just go and fetch her home like a driver. Suddenly today she told me wat would u do if you didn`t get anything back from me after u have done so much ?

I totally went blank. So my question is do you guys out there think that i`ve done to much to give up now ? Or is that normal in chasing girls .

And if guys had such bad experience pls share it out so i can judge for myself and see if i`ve done too much.

Don't splurge on girls who are not your gfs yet, ESPECIALLY SG Girls who are POOR!

Is she POOR but hot?

The best option for you right now is to Permanently forget about her trick question.

It's what we do to mess with your brain.

Detached SG

i have a similiar exp and i m willing to share it with u....

i woo a girl for 2yrs and she accepted my wooing..so i continue...i also let her know my feelings but she just says its isnt time..

i have also fetch her hm which was far away from my hse...i was willing to spend tat few hrs to do tat...

in the end, she says "tell me y shld be be tgt"...if u hear tat qn suddenly i bet u dunno wat to ans...then there she was just gone all of a sudden...

now she is with a guy so much older than her...i just cannot accept tat fact tat she allowed me to woo her n still gt rejected...

the only advice i can give is

1) try to cool dwn alittle n see if she reaacts...such as u msg her lesser compared to last time and see if she realise tat n notice if she starts msging u more..

2) u shld not spend tat much to woo the gal...she might think u take her as someone who loves money...if she loves money more than u..i believe just let it go...

u can pm me anytime

Another one whom went down the same way as TS.

Consider this statement I made earlier "Guys whom only know how to play it the nice way, fail most of the time" You know, amigo.. this whole science of attraction goes beyond being nice..

I refer to the last sentence and I got worrying - just because a lady 'allows' your wooing means she got to accept your wooing.

Oh well, c'est la vie... Be humble in victory, and gracious in defeat.. Better luck next time, pal

Babelfish SG

it appears that she is no longer as interested as u at the start. I think what u have is starting to cause her discomfort.

TS i know that you are trying to be sincere, but apparently to her you are overdoing things. I suggest you just stop all this and leave her alone. If she misses you, then she will contact you automatically de.

Overdoing things, or being eager to prove your sincerity may be the reason why you fail in the end..

Dont become the next me..

charlize SG

Girls like bad boys, not nice guys who treat them prim and proper.

Try ignoring her and not contacting her for a few weeks/ months / years.

See if she calls you to find out what's wrong.

If she doesn't, you can bet you are first on her list.

First from the bottom, that is.

16/f/lonely SG

The thread title leads the imagination of a person astray.

charlize SG

The thread title leads the imagination of a person astray.

You think too much.

Men. Pfffttttt.

loveishardtofind SG

for a girl's view...

u have been "out"-ed.

u see my point? she dun interest in u, and feel stress abt what u did to her.

but well, it is just my opinion la, cos i dun really like guy who is toooooooo over.

on the other hand, it is sweet la, but when u dun like a person whatever he did is just irritating u...

n for me... i like the guy i hardly to attain one...

anw.. good luck!

Prophecy_Master SG

i think the girl is either :

guilty for taking advantage of you.

She is testing you.

charlize SG

Girls always have the power.

If a guy likes her and showers her with gifts and affection, the girl benefits.

Which girl doesn't want to feel nice and pampered without having to commit?

candiz SG

Girls always have the power.

If a guy likes her and showers her with gifts and affection, the girl benefits.

Which girl doesn't want to feel nice and pampered without having to commit?

but i will know the limit, if the guy is doing too much n i'm not interested, i'll let him know that we should just remain where we are

some gals out there just lead on and enjoy the attention, those idiots i don like

charlize SG

but i will know the limit, if the guy is doing too much n i'm not interested, i'll let him know that we should just remain where we are

some gals out there just lead on and enjoy the attention, those idiots i don like

You get treated to free lunches and dinners when you meet up.

Free kopi.

Gifts on important dates like Valentine's Day, X mas, birthday etc.

Wheee.

And when you get bored, you just tell him "thanks bro, you are the kor kor I never had"

candiz SG

You get treated to free lunches and dinners when you meet up.

Free kopi.

Gifts on important dates like Valentine's Day, X mas, birthday etc.

Wheee.

And when you get bored, you just tell him "thanks bro, you are the kor kor I never had"

going out with a gal doesn't necessariy hav to be r/s, confess etc etc, it can just be pure friendship, guys shldn't think too much, if not gals don't dare to go out wif u as a friend anymore

anw, when i go out wif guys normally they treat first, but sometimes i also will pay. and although i get gifts from frens, i also will buy them back, not all gals take things for granted

just that there are some who are really spoilt and think they are like princess

charlize SG

going out with a gal doesn't necessariy hav to be r/s, confess etc etc, it can just be pure friendship, guys shldn't think too much, if not gals don't dare to go out wif u as a friend anymore

anw, when i go out wif guys normally they treat first, but sometimes i also will pay. and although i get gifts from frens, i also will buy them back, not all gals take things for granted

just that there are some who are really spoilt and think they are like princess

That's why I say girls have the power.

It is almost a given fact that when a guy wants to go out with a girl constantly, he is interested in her.

On the other hand, the girl can just go along for the ride.

And when she gets bored, she just says "we are just friends"

Girl power, I say.

Girl power.

candiz SG

That's why I say girls have the power.

It is almost a given fact that when a guy wants to go out with a girl constantly, he is interested in her.

On the other hand, the girl can just go along for the ride.

And when she gets bored, she just says "we are just friends"

Girl power, I say.

Girl power.

haha, guys also have the power too, as long as u are hot enough, gal or guy will hav the power

gals at least only lead u along, buy her stuff, that's all

guys worse ok, bluff gal feelings, get her into bed and later say just be frens

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