Confessing of love

last SG · 2008-11-05T23:54:12+00:00

how to counter that awkward silence?

sageangel SG

Ohh.. sorry ppl, was busy for these few days, so dint really see the posts up to now. Thanks everyone for your comments. Well.. Actually, we were already friends for quite some time, in poly times to be exact(Now we have both grad). And i have had a liking for her since then. But she had a bf in the past, so i decided to let go.

But as time goes by, we started to contacted each other once more, and got closer this time round. It kinda re-ignite the feelings i had for her in the past. So i decided to tell her i like her. I donno if the right choice, but she makes me feel like doing everyting i can, just to be able to see her smile. Haha.. Silly har.

YayaKheo SG

nah, not silly. Because it's all for love :))

Mintzy08 SG

i think it may be better not to confess first until you are kinda sure that she likes you. because if your confession backfire, she may start to avoid you. even if she doesn't, i think your relationship would somehow not be the same as before.

joyanz SG

ok... fr a girls' point of view:

DO NOT CONFESS yet.... u will stun the girl.. and seriously things will not be the same anymore. however u can try to drop hints 1st. until u sure she is a little interested =)

fr a guys' point of view:

as some have mentioned, no guts no glory.... but the girl will feel u are moving too fast n pressuring her to make a DECISION. which might backfire...

so whether u wan to think for the girl or u wan to tink for urself... up to u =)

ItchyArmpit SG

Seriously,i think nowdays guys not dat dumb like last time men anymore,if a ger likes u,u can feel it de. If u have the slightest hestiation in calling her,wondering if she'll go out wit u,i mean this in the context that u all are juz normal friends ah,and dun have some kind of funny feuds or what,den u noe she dun like u mah,if u know that whenever u call,she'll answer and that ur chances of asking her out is high,den bro,u confirm got chance,just see how u play ur tactics lor,for me i dont ask,actions from her usually i will noe if i can.Girls nowdays not dat afraid to show their fondness for guys le.

Right Girls?

wow... kind of true...

there is 3 girls having the same thing u described..

in the end after 2 months 2 of them confessed...

and i heard that the other one liked me... heard it from my friend...

aiseh... ugly nvm, humorous enough le!!!

hmm now think of it.. i am quite attracting afterall...

juz^up SG

wow... kind of true...

there is 3 girls having the same thing u described..

in the end after 2 months 2 of them confessed...

and i heard that the other one liked me... heard it from my friend...

aiseh... ugly nvm, humorous enough le!!!

hmm now think of it.. i am quite attracting afterall...

Haha,really? NPNT wor... Den let us judge for ourselves can?

Sakuragi86 SG

dont confess otherwise you will lose the game and later you must listen to hear forever .you must play hard to get.wait for her to come begging for you.

Hwaimeng SG

never mind just do this

take her out - go to pub - drunk her - take off her cloths - take photo - sex her - show her photo - and prepare to go to jail

at least u get her ^^

parn i wan yr photo leh

sbs8104h SG

make friends with her, know her inside out. once then, if you think she is perfect for you, ask her out. if she shows sign that she likes you, then confess.... i'm a guy and i did just that. if she is not what you're looking for, don't break the friendship, just know another person and still be friends with her... you will never know if she may like you in the end???

Hazelno SG

Seriously, even if you want to confess, do it 1 to 1, never ever do it in front of her friends.

arieswilson SG

no guts no glory
no brains same story

no guts no glory

no brains same story

no cash bang lorry

lol

joyanz SG

Seriously, even if you want to confess, do it 1 to 1, never ever do it in front of her friends.

1 of the guy confessed infront of one of my gal frend... in the end... kena rejected. lols... i too paiseh lah! so i say no.... haha....

DownAndOut SG

1 of the guy confessed infront of one of my gal frend... in the end... kena rejected. lols... i too paiseh lah! so i say no.... haha....

Thats why guys must learn tactical confession.. either that or learn to isolate them..

Violetress SG

Hai,sometimes guy also tend to tink too much. duno y they tink so much. I briefly told a guy like if we shld go go further coz we've been hanging on like that for sometime. and his response is simply that he finds no barrier when tokin2 me, and he enjoy hanging out with me. after that tings go back 2 normal. siao one.

Only-Way-4-Destiny! SG

Ga2 ga4 ga3 yi gong (hokkien)

playmemory SG

confession is a very personal thing.

give hint first. one way is to give flowers. see her response before confess.

Violetress SG

li kua wa la, wa si live example man... yala must ga ga ga yi gong.. bo mi gia to gia eh. but of coz ga ga ga yi gong also must depends on tactic,fate,luck. sometimes gong liao become my situation lor, become kns lor. but at least one big stone put down liao n u can do as much stupid tings as u like liao. ho sey liao lidat!

Violetress SG

anyway love is v subjective de... u got to describe how the gal is first... as in her character.. lidat den we can advice u whether or not u can confess or not ma..or whether to hint.. if not every1 giving u all sorts of ans n advice u cfm see until tao hin lor. u go n test water 1st..test her character 1st..den u state down here n we will all giv u our views. lidat more accurate liao. 2nd layer of filter n advice is da best!

CannyOng SG

i m a girl. i dont recommend u to confess that u like the girl 1st. just be friends first. learn to control your feelings =) certain things once said out, the girl will be uncomfortable when u are nicer than normal friends to her. certain things are meant to be kept in the heart until u have the slightest hint that she is starting to be interested in u. then maybe u can consider confessing to the girl

TS,just follow this gal advise!

Those no guts, no glory advise are just from some keyboard warrior who never even date a gal before. LOL.

If u want to bang yr head and up lorry, go ahead for no guts,no glory!

Triangle1992 SG

Love cannot be forced :) Just be urself and confess to her and tell her ur words from ur heart . And even she rejects u its ok .. there r so many girls out there ... buddy just do wad u want u only live once

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