This seems to be an ongoing repetitive problem here in Aunt
Agony...saddens me to know it everytime and so I would like to
share my thoughts to y'all.
Why do all guys strives to be cool and act like a MAN when they
are not even able to confess their feelings to the girl that they
have feelings for?
Guys like these are not MAN, they are frightened insecure
little boys trapped inside a MAN's body.
If rejections is all it takes to destroy their soul, then maybe
they don't deserves to be with the girl that they like. The
girl would be so much happier and better off with a real MAN than
frightened insecure little boys.
How many of you actually got a really bad rejection from a girl
after confessing your feelings to her?
Speak up, be honest with your feelings and let the girl
knows how you feel. We're already into the 21st century and yet
guys are still behaving like the 18th century.
Talk to her and ask her out if you like her and want to know
more about her. Tell her you like her and would like to know
more about her if she asked you why you want to ask her out.
At the most she will say she is not interested and then you can
move on to the next one, she's probably not the girl you're looking
for anyway if she is not interested in you.
Most girls will be impressed by your initiative if you tell
her you want to know more about her. Most guys couldn't care less
and yet still hope for the girl to like him by playing it cool.
Ya....keep playing cool and keep dreaming on ok?
First come, first serve, no good girls will wait for guys who
likes to keep playing cool. Good girls don't wait for cool guys,
they want to be with hot guys who cannot live without them....like
their oxygen!
So where are all the MAN? 