father why

trying to be a good son SG

all these years I trying to be good son. make sure his health is okay. My famliy need not to worry about foods. but he never seem to understand the flight this home having now. My company have said not layoff package only fired mode. Which mean any time a mistake make , it will be good excuse for them to kick me out. I the bread winner in the house. now my dad wanted to paid for something he bid in the zhong yuan hui. this is insane,we don even have enough $ 2 get by. he 58 this year but his thinking does not match his age. how long I need to suffer this ???????

jojobeach SG

He wants to pay for the bid with his money. Why do you want to control his spendings?

If you are giving allowances.. you should consider giving him less.

Everybody needs to readjusts their expenses.

There's no need to over stretch yourself just because you feel obliged to do so.

Only-Way-4-Destiny! SG

So hard to comprehend. Anyway, juz treat it as a training and train urself up. Life is never smooth sailing.

mancha SG

Off topic, but are you hiding something?

Your spelling is excellent, but....

Violetress SG

what abt ur mom?Is she doing anything? Is there any effort made by u/the rest of the family members to advice ur dad etc?

skythewood SG

Remember when you were small and wanted to buy things? Your dad had a hard time than too....

So now is your turn.

What has that got to do with your company being in fire mode? Why you even mention that, like no link... Trying to ganer sympathy? I doubt things were easier during your dad's time anyway...

[J]erry SG

if u are a good worker. unless the company collapse ur job will be safe.

u are working.. and u still want get money from ur father? shame on you..

you are insane!

limpper SG

if u are a good worker. unless the company collapse ur job will be safe.

u are working.. and u still want get money from ur father? shame on you..

you are insane!

he say he is the family solo bread winner. get it?

and ts, if you so not happy with your life, end it.

if not, live it as it is, this is life, this is the world, don expect fairness to just dropby.

but anw, i wish you all the best.

take care dude.

caleb_chiang SG

it's your reponsibility to take care of them till they die, so just suck it.

Cool-gal SG

actually i think TS means "money not enough, stil want to spend unnecessarily"..

try talking to ur dad?

u noe elders like to 'beo' this n tat, like a kind of donation n good will..