Revenge and retribution

Worldlybusinessman SG

how can u change a person u know who has a lot of these feelings inside him or her.

Only-Way-4-Destiny! SG

Well, 江山易改,本性难改。But 天下无难事，只怕有心人。

themoment86 SG

don't try it..they will take revenge and u will have retribution

parn SG

how can u change a person u know who has a lot of these feelings inside him or her.

Hypnotise helps and that may be what you need for your "person" .... or yourself.

Babelfish SG

give him the worst experience of his life=) weaken his mind and ability to make judgements.

BadzMaro SG

like thats gonna work.. what if that made him more motivated to give u a whoop ass, or decided to go postal on ur ass.lol

Babelfish SG

oh dear.. in that case i better go learn wing chun 1st..hehe

BadzMaro SG

wing chun aint gonna help when he decides to storm ur house with 2 samurai swords n starts hack n slashing anyone n everyone he sees.

Babelfish SG

wing chun aint gonna help when he decides to storm ur house with 2 samurai swords n starts hack n slashing anyone n everyone he sees.

nah.. i will have a nambu pistol in standby and i will headshot him before he has the chance to do anything XD

BadzMaro SG

nah.. i will have a nambu pistol in standby and i will headshot him before he has the chance to do anything XD

most likely. he strikes when u least expect.

Think... School Shootings. Bet most of the victims didnt expcet that eh...

viciouskitty74 SG

how can u change a person u know who has a lot of these feelings inside him or her.

Sounds like a branch of my family that are genetically bonkers and gone bonkers ever so often.

Nothing you can do about it. Even if you are careful, and thinking you never aggrevate that fella, he/she might still remember you for some inconsequential slights.

So, best is just avoid the fella, maybe intro him/her to some more meaningful hobbies and have them stay out of your way, but within your sights.

Do not get emotionally attached to them. Parasites are plenty in this world, without you needing to seek them out.

Fantagf SG

Sounds like a branch of my family that are genetically bonkers and gone bonkers ever so often.

Nothing you can do about it. Even if you are careful, and thinking you never aggrevate that fella, he/she might still remember you for some inconsequential slights.

So, best is just avoid the fella, maybe intro him/her to some more meaningful hobbies and have them stay out of your way, but within your sights.

Do not get emotionally attached to them. Parasites are plenty in this world, without you needing to seek them out.

some people are just too petty, unforgiving. There are people who just simply love picking on others to get angry with them though these people have not done any wrong.

There are always vicious, nasty people around.

mancha SG

Someone plotting revenge?

Its not hate, but hurt.

That person has been hurt, by something grevious or something petty, usually the ego has taken a dent. This hurt generates hate, and the need to dish out tit for tat, or most likely, this for that. Revenge!

Find out where the hurt is. Is it the ego, or pride, or loss of someone special or something valuable. Once you can identify the hurt, it will lose its potency. Note feeling the hurt, is not the same as acknowledging the hurt. The difference is in feeling pissed, as against saying " I was pissed by her remark." The latter leads the way towards pacification. The former snowballs.

Identify the hurt to forestall revenge.

As for retribution, forget it, as it is usually association. We are quick to attribute an unfortunate turn to past events and say its retribution.