You can have a r/s or a lover outside of your marriage..
But at the end of the day, there are 3 things we
all have to be responsible to in a
marriage,
The first 2 mentioned should be a no-brainer for all.
For the 3rd point mentioned, when there are times we feel like we
don't love our other-half anymore (to the extent that there'll
always be quarrel), please remember, love your marriage. There's a
reason why you said what you both said during the vows to each
other in front of the JP..
I hope this is a wake up call to those who are going thru a
divorce, or are having an extramarital affair..