hypersensitivity

dracas SG

How do i be insensitive? Some people are hypersensitive to remarks, scarcasm, feedbacks. Being a guy, I am unhappy to be this way, how i wish i would live my life according to my own standards, not conforming to what society or other people have bounded their rules onto me. I want to be nonchalant about everything. how how?

ChoCoChips SG

treat everyone else like ants

ginger_tmt SG

Accept that you cannot please everyone and just be confident of yourself. :)

SoulDivine SG

You just need to develop wisdom and have better understanding of your "human mind".

When you have more wisdom and better understanding, you are less affected by negative remarks, scarcasm, feedbacks e.t.c.

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dumbdumb! SG

insensitive got 2 meanings.

one is, u just do as u like, regardless whether people get hurt in the process or not. u say things without feeling the need to consider other people's feelings. needless to say, that's bad. because you're just nothing but a jerk

another is, you're a blur cock, things happening around you, you dunno. people talking behind ur back, or being pretentious, you also dunno. borderlining ignorance and innocence..

both are bad.

i believe what u want to be, is less sensitive to critisizm.

my advices are christian based, so.. unless u don't mind hearing my advices, then let me know =)

playmemory SG

i think TS is not a jerk. else won't be posting here.

sensitive can means your oberservation to the surrounding is sensitive.

to be too sensitive is a stupid behaviour and no need to be bothered by them. coz its thier problem and not your problem.

some super sensitive pple got super high expectation and can only communicate with certain group of pple. pls don't be bother by them. they can only have limited number of friends.

dracas SG

Ya....i guess i am over-observant....i find it very amazing when i read books on human psychology......hypersensitivity can be like...for e.g. a gd friend say he/she is busy and thus ignore ur call or sms, then the hypersensitive person will assume that he is being ignored and feels sad over it. unless of cos that friend is v impt or some1 special.

how to be less observant? Im constantly looking out for body lanaguges.....minute facial expression, all these things r driving me crazy. even if there is a slightest hint of annoyance from the other party, i step away

parn SG

Of course you can also be insensitive, it's real easy anyway.

JUST RETURN FIRE WHENEVER YOU THINK YOU ARE BEING FIRED UPON.

Once you have returned fire, you will naturally be nonchalant about it cos it's only natural and polite that you should return fire when being fired upon.

It's called returning the goodwill.

If people give you ang bao, then you must give them some oranges right?

alwaysbemybaby SG

parn SG

Ya....I have to agree with you that you are a fag.

Don't know why you always kept a collection of such disgusting pictures as if that's your hobby.

Do you need any real help? (This is a serious question)

alwaysbemybaby SG

Ya....I have to agree with you that you are a fag.

Don't know why you always kept a collection of such disgusting pictures as if that's your hobby.

Do you need any real help? (This is a serious question)