My girlfriend quarrelled with me that for the past few years I
do not include her in for our family reunion dinner and also when
go visiting we do seperate visiting (she follow her family, I
follow my family) and not as a couple. Her family always extend
their invites to me for all their reunion dinner but she said
my family does not do that.
I don't know if it is me but I explained to her I feel that its
only appropriate to include her for reunion dinner after we got
married or when we planned to get married. Now I want to include
her she also don't want to come. That creates an uproar that she
want to break up with me =(
For my brothers and sisters they also don't bring their partner
along until they are married. Want to hear views of couples out
there...am I just being stupid to have this kind of thoughts ?
Since she likes to have dinner with your family so much, why don't
you bring her home for dinner often?
But I know that's not the real reason why she is picking on
you.
Ask yourself this question, how long has she been together with
you already?
When do you want to propose and marry her?
So long together already still don't want to marry her, of
course get picked on lor.... 
