failure in life

Lokey SG

after reading through 60 posts. lol. gd4nth, I dont think you are a failure in life. But rarer not experienced life enough. Do spend time with yourself and reflect. See you inner self. Life is about experiencing on your own doing what you think is right. Dont really need to care about others. A share of my experiences with you all.

I have friends who have declare retired @ 26 already earn 1 million.

some still studying Uni doing a part-time degree,

some fufillling their scholarship bonds trying to rectify their mistakes

one sec2 educated trying to make a living

one in Changi Prison serving his sentences

some doing their phD

some started business

some really dead @ 26

some got cancer, trying to stay alive ...Expand your social network and try to stay alive. Some of people I know is already dead before 23. And life is nothing but a illusion.

Have confidence with yourself, do what you like. When you die tomolo and GOD ask you if you have any regrets. How do you answer?

I like Evangel's advice, about one would only have to few things right and aviod all the major mistakes in life. <-- True

Alextoh71 SG

do not worry of a low starting point – even u climb high at young – does not mean you will always stay high…...in fact – with failures and set back it will make you stronger and more steadily in later part of your life. Life’s a long journey bro….......for me, after achieving a steady startup – then experience setback later part -even more siong…....

Alextoh71 SG

d3sT1nY SG

Erm. Well. It's your life. Just accept it.

I also have friends who are also going to come out from army when he's 23. Yet I don't see him getting so upset about going into army at such an "old" age.

He's still leading a fulfilled life out there. A life I would say better than some of the people here maybe. It's all about how you see it from another angle.

The fact that you can get into NUS Business is already an achievement. Just that in Business course, it's going to be a bit more competitive than the rest from what I heard. So really get yourself mentally prepared if you want to strive for an honours.

"Ivy" universities are really only for those who are in the top tiers so don't compare yourself with them. And for those "ivy" universities are often overseas. Don't you like Singapore here? Haha.

Your friends with flashy BMW is never because they are rich or rather it's their parents who are capable to earning so much money that they can afford one.

If your friends are earning 2000+ from teaching tuition, then go teach tuitions yourself. Tutees aren't coming to look for you. You have to be the one looking for them. And if you feel that you aren't good enough to teach, then start revising all your past works now. As many people have said, it's never too late to start. You have to take the first step out instead of whining to other people.

Maybe you wouldn't be earning as much as your friends. But at least you can start small. As the chinese saying goes, a thousand-story building starts from the ground. Don't expect yourself to start earning so much right from the start.

Maybe you should sit down one day and start thinking about yourself. Learn from others. Maybe a good way is to list down your goals and achieve them within a period of time.

Ya. And it's your life, just accept it. If you are not born with a silver spoon, you are not born with a silver spoon. That's a fact.

And the fact that you are seeking help means you actually want to change. You just need to start.

My point of view. You may not agree with me though.

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