thanks for the opinions…..some of ur comments actually made me
felt that i was wrong to think like this but still there are some
things not explained yet.I’ve only been living in my friend’s
fathers house for almost a year and it started last month when my
mom stopped sending me money and telling me to move back with them
and i told her i needed more time cause i though i had a chance of
finding a job here.So i told my friend to go home and tell his dad
that i might have to give his dad the rent a bit later,and this is
where it starts.Til now its been 2 months of rent i havent paid and
that is pretty much the reason his dad wants me out…......he
probably think im one of those people who wont pay back money so he
started pretending to ask me to move back when reallys means
telling me to get the hell out of here.
It was this problem which really made me learn about a truth in
this world.It me understand how money changes people and how greedy
humans and this world is.I’ve talked to my mom after todays anger
on the phone and my mom told me some things i actually believed her
cause i never listened to her in the past.This is what my mom told
me…........”you are not the landlords son,he has no reason to
shelter you or help u with ur problems,there are no such thing as
free food or anything free in this world,it wasnt his fault for
trying to kick u out because u are in his way of making money for
his life and all humans are like that”
It actually made me feel that all humans are greedy and only
helps themselves and their family….............but it is not wrong
and its not their fault,they just want their own life better for
their family and themselve…......but also they wont care for anyone
else outside their family which is not of any concern to them.
Right now i’ve decided to not get violent but when he comes
knocking on my door today and asking to see my airplane ticket,im
gonna say some stuffs that might piss him off and if he talks back
then i will not be so polite but to start talking back to him.Im
just gonna be standing up for myself and not get bullied by an
outsider
Ed,
It is not because humans are greedy.. rather.. you have proven
to be a very untrustworthy person.
Do you know what is the meaning of an "AGREEMENT" ?
His dad agreed to 200 per month of your rental. You didn't pay.
What's worst is that ... instead of you going to tell him
personally that you in dire financial situation.. you made HIS son
be the messenger.
If I'm your friend's dad.. I will look at you and say " This
chap is taking advantage of my family".
To be honest.. 200 bucks is probably nothing to his dad( what
his dad work as ?) But you have not kept to your end of the
deal. Now tell me.. why should his dad even TRUST you ? Just
because you were nice to them ? Dude.. being nice is what you
SHOULD be doing.. it's not credit worthy . Gettit ?
You try pissing him off.. when push comes to shove.. his dad can
simply call in the cops. Then you can say bye bye to USA maybe for
the next 10 years . Don't forget you are not a US citizen , yes
?
If his dad is really so greedy.. he coulda just say NO from the
beginning.
So dude.. stop taking other people's kindness for their
weakness.
Chill~
