love and crush

Pippinpro SG

come tofu.. kor kor explain to u..

crush is infatuation,

for example i got crush on mary, then i will go so crazy about her for like 1 or 2 weeks.. later on i only have the feeling ONLY when i saw her...

if i love mary, i will have the feeling for her and think of her very frequently... this feeling will last for years..

simply put.. u can love someone not pretty... but u cant have crush on someone ugly..

crush is superficial.. love is the opposite..

love is very lasting.. crush is only a period..

therefore.. u only love the person after u really noe her well.. if not u cant love anyone..

but crush will also think of her now and than even when u dun see her?

thinking of sms her, thinking of going out with her, knowing her better, for quite some time...

Uncertain SG

He is tracking me for very long already. Worst, he knows which unit I stay, scary leh. He knows when I go to the food centre near my house and will be there to look, stare at me. He will be sitting at the area downstairs my block at night, sometimes very late at night. I know this for I am monitoring him very closely. Once if it warrants for report to police, I will give him the honour of letting his inappropriate behaviour be recorded by the police.

There was once when I was talking to a couple of people in the food centre, he just appeared from nowhere and stood there staring at me as if expecting me to do as he pleased. When I saw him, i just walked away. Too bad, those people whom I talked to were sitting with their backs facing him. The next couple of weeks later, he complained to his friend in the food centre about me and the friend stared at me with disgust and anger. This is really bitchy of him to do such to me. If he genuinely wants to be friend that is not the way to go. I believe he is only interested in my body.

No worry, I am finding ways and means to avoid him. I change time to go to food centre and market already.

I think you should move house or find yourself a boyfriend or any kind-hearted guy who is willing to escort you.

You shouldn't confront this kind of pia kia as Sg pia kia are capable of doing stupid things like you know drag u into some dark corner or whatever that is going to happen.

Fantagf SG

seriously hes physco to me sia... desperate till this state...more like a stalker than a guy that wanna befriend with u... yeah avoiding him is good, but once he noe u change food centre, i believe he will start the routine over again. Maybe u can try confront him and ask him wad he wants, carify things with him will be alot better than avoiding for long term, unless u change your job 50km away from your existing area.

but carify only with a couple of frenz with u, dun do solo, coz dunno wad the sex manic will do to u.. ya good luck =D

Thanks for your advice. I continue to avoid him. Have continue monitoring him. He still appears downstairs everyday. I stop going to food centre whenever I know he will be there.

Fantagf SG

I think you should move house or find yourself a boyfriend or any kind-hearted guy who is willing to escort you.

You shouldn't confront this kind of pia kia as Sg pia kia are capable of doing stupid things like you know drag u into some dark corner or whatever that is going to happen.

Umm, I continue to avoid him. Thanks for your concern. Something is very wrong with this guy. Screw loose somewhere in his brain.

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