People asking very serious questions in need of serious help and
answers. Some of you guys come here joke around. 
TS, I guess few of us here would be able to provide helpful
advice because few have been in the situation you've been through.
It's better to seek advice from the professionals or people who are
closer to understanding your situation.
But I agree...don't make your decisions just base on other
people's selfish wants. They do not last and by that time, you'll
be more deeply hurt.
Ask yourself what you yourself really want, what's best for
you.