Guessing the contents of a letter?

last SG · 2008-12-05T00:45:58+00:00

casperV? come on, why u said so? did i offend u in anyways? wtf...

libraguy78 SG

i was involved with a girl who has a bf for 8 yrs. we were quite intimate for about 2 months ++ she said she loves me alot and feels very hard to breakup with her bf, as her bf is treating her very nice. she finds no reason to break up with him and yet due to family and friend's obligations, she couldn't break up with him. At certain time, she said she really would wanna consider me, but she felt more practical with him.

They are suppose to get married in 1 yr time. I felt really bad and realized this finally after a big battle of myself, and sort of ended this "grey" relationship with her. She was quite sad about it either. For 3 days I resist from talking and communicating with her in anyways but in the end she wrote me a letter. Should I read it? I had already missing her badly but I know I've got to move on. So I am not sure if I should read the letter? My friends adviced me not to read as it will not do me any good during this healing period.

Would like to know if anyone has any comments on what will the contents be? Will it do me more harm to read it? Or should I give each other another chance?

ChoCoChips SG

u came here and post instead of throwing the letter away

this prolly means u wan to read it

so go read it la knn

charlize SG

Aunt Agony doesn't have bionic eyes.

Just read it lah.

thehappybunny SG

i am cuter than chips

FirePig SG

wa seh...you really can resist temptations. If i were you, i would read it immediately when nobody is around.

ChoCoChips SG

and dun be too optimistic about the contents hor

"hi dear

as u prolly know im getting married next year,

but i need money to prepare for the wedding

can u help me?"

fairlady_xoxo SG

*burn*

If she can be with a bf who is her to be husband and still be with you...what makes you think that being with you...she might not cheat on you behind your back with another guy and have the same above scenario?

RaTtY8l SG

agreed with xoxo.

libraguy78 SG

fair lady,

you have some sense, but what we went through is really true, she said she found what was missing with her bf.And I am exactly the right person she would want to be with.

Btw, the marriage is not being planned at all yet. Just a slip from her lips once a while. That's all. hmm..

~N3RD~ SG

the letter is just a piece of paper... read it or burn it...

FireIce SG

u will regret if u dun read

fairlady_xoxo SG

fair lady,

you have some sense, but what we went through is really true, she said she found what was missing with her bf.And I am exactly the right person she would want to be with.

Btw, the marriage is not being planned at all yet. Just a slip from her lips once a while. That's all. hmm..

i have a friend who is in the same position as you..i honestly...i feel that its a relationship with no 结果...the problem is...even if she is with you...she will need her bf as well...this "Relationship" has turned into a 3 way relationship...i will never work unless you 3 can compromise and "Share" each other openly and open-mindedly....if not its just a "marriage+an affair"

mancha SG

I am no David Copperfield, but I guess the letter would contain either a confession or a farewell note.

Most likely a confession, for if it is a farewell note why leave traces that could surface later. That's my deduction.

Anyway it is a letter to you, so read it. Decide what to do, AFTER that

Komon SG

Read it better read it

BangHong SG

read it baaa!!!! If not regret

CasperV SG

wow i just learnt something new from this thread. girls go for what they want, not the logical choice. thanks for posting

Cool-gal SG

read it, digest it and excrete it..

dun break r/s.

skythewood SG

pass it to me

i help you read it.

frienderine SG

Get your friend to read it?

dcx SG

fair lady,

you have some sense, but what we went through is really true, she said she found what was missing with her bf.And I am exactly the right person she would want to be with.

Btw, the marriage is not being planned at all yet. Just a slip from her lips once a while. That's all. hmm..

ah..i see....

Her bf is 9,

Your're 1,

So, 9+1 = 10 => The Perfect 10 = 100% she has in for a guy she can be with....

So, if you're 1 = 10%, and her bf is 9 =90%, what do you think of your chances with her in future?