I am staying in the same house with my boyfriend. Came home one
day early from work and entered the bedroom only to catch my
boyfriend with his pants down. Not with another woman but instead
masturbating himself while watching porn over the internet.
I felt so upset. Shouldn't I be the only one he finds desirable?
Why should he be doing this while looking at the naked body of some
other girls?
I don't know if it is right for me to feel upset or am I just
being too sensitive?
There's actually no right or wrong in this kind of scenario.
It all depends on you actually. If you really mind and felt
uncomfortable about your bf's masturbation, then please let your bf
know and your bf should respect you and stop this kind of
activities at once if he really cared about your
feelings.
Some girls mind, while others tried to act like open-minded and
doesn't mind. But this is a subjective issue and the right answer
for your scenario lies within what you felt when you caught him
masturbating.
It's as easy as you don't like him to have piercings in his body
and it's as easy as he doesn't like you to wear super revealing
top.
Just let him know...and don't listen to all those masturbation
supporters cos they are probably masturbaters themselves. And don't
listen to those open-minded aunties cos they are not YOU and will
never understand how comfortable you are feeling and experience
what you are going through.
Decide for yourself and let your bf know about your uneasiness
regarding his masturbation.
But let us know the outcome ok? 
