hey i find myself abit stupid and ignorant ah...
u see ar.. i came across some threads and some conversation with
my friends
Firstly, a girl talking to a boy about sex.. it is when the girl
started about it first and also they are just normal co
workers...
somehow i find it not that right... tho not much.. give comments
pls
Secondly, i came across a thread saying girl and boy
(relationship is normal friends) saying that they watch porn in a
room together.. frequently..
i find it really not right... and my friends think it is nothing
and it is very very normal to them.. give comments pls...
Thirdly, i happened to experience a very very bad friendship
problem.. friend ignoring me because there is an even closer friend
to him..
i ask poured my sorrow on my another friend and told her
everything.. she said it is very alright to ignore another FRIEND
because there is the presence of another friend..
i was like.. "hey, cmon.. friends.. afterall a "hi" is the least
u could say..." and this happens that the friend i poured sorrow on
said that she would even not say a hi when there is the presence of
another closer friend...
Lastly, this is after long that i scolded 2 of my friends for
ignoring me.. after that one of the friend told me that she dunno
why i was angry and tot that i was totally at wrong..
i explained why i was angry WITH LOTTA REASONS FOR ONE TO BE
ANGRY AT, and she didnt even say sorry.. nvm.. but she wanted me to
say sorry.. so she tot I WAS AT WRONG...
guys.. i dunno how the world became.. it really is very bad.. i
cant get it off my chest..
gimme comments on all the four factor.. i dunno if i still live
in the 19th century, or just that the world became too open-minded
for me to believe..
IA
I guess I have similar mentality as you.
Personally, I don't feel quite right to talk about sex/porn or
watching porn among my male friends, let alone with female.
However, I do joke around sometime (with my male friends only) but
with limit.
About friends ignoring you, I say that's part of life, get used
to it. Friend comes and goes, but true friend (<- hard to find,
maybe your whole lifetime also cannot find one) don't.
For the final question, why did you even scold them for in the
first place? If it's me, I would not even bother about it. They are
not worth to keep by your side if they were to disregard you.
In short, Singaporeans in general are still quite
conservative, but it is also a fact that our mindset are changing
and are getting more open-minded as the generation goes on so live
with it.
