i fell for an older girl

last SG · 2008-11-10T21:53:53+00:00

thanks for all your advices and comments. i do think she is more mature than me. i don't know what can i do to bring the gap closer. somehow i feel that she...

lonestar86 SG

people know then?

ur r/s or theirs?

but somehow the r/s will be affected by their harsh comments. trust me ok? cus my previous r/s was an example. she left me for a guy who is 8 yrs older than me..

parn also dun agree with jie di lian..

Lorry` SG

but somehow the r/s will be affected by their harsh comments. trust me ok? cus my previous r/s was an example. she left me for a guy who is 8 yrs older than me..

parn also dun agree with jie di lian..

huh. what does she leavin you got to do with jie di lian?

If the r/s is firm, nothing can affect 1 lor.

lonestar86 SG

huh. what does she leavin you got to do with jie di lian?

If the r/s is firm, nothing can affect 1 lor.

cus i was 20 years old back then and i just got enlisted. She's 5 years older than me. Our families strongly object our r/s but we persist on. Our r/s lasted for 6 months and eventually, she left me after my BMT. I didn't blame her as I dun expect her to wait for me. She has made a right choice by leaving me. She's now married to the man whom she has left me for. She's even a mum now, living blissfully with him. From the bottom of my heart, i've given them my blessings..

vietnhoc SG

my wife is 12yrs older than me & we're happily married for 4 yrs.when cupid strikes,you can't escape...

Alucard101 SG

I bet she will control you for the rest of life:)

xoxbox SG

buddy....(i don't know u lol)

in love, age doesn't matter. a wise old man once said "there is no reason for loving someone. if you have a reason, then its not called love!" and an old chinese saying "Ai shi mei you li you de" well, one year difference isnt a problem. im in love with a friend of mine, she's also a year older than me. her super kindness has stolen my feelings for other women!(thats not love, its just a saying). but she's not my girlfriend, she treats me as her "good friend". to her, 1st; close, 2nd; best, 3rd; good T-T

rmb, there is no reason for loving someone^^ (thats how the wise old man said lol"

xoxbox SG

but deep inside ur mind, you've been cursing that man!>=D

jkjk

Q.C.Pak SG

lol...i like older girls...

Same same....

deathmaster SG

my general impression is that guys don't really mind how old their girl is. just so long as they don't look too bad.

the issue lies more with the girls, who are brought up in a society which once frown on jie-di lian. most of the girls i noe arn't agreeable with dating someone younger than them, not to say marry someone younger.

Pitot SG

think its the social stigma.

They might not mind, but how would their friends and family feel?

Lorry` SG

If your r/s of jie di lian failed, it does not mean others' would. Not every family has the same mindset as your family. Just because yours failed, you shouldn't have discouraged others to goin for it. So there.

Sakuragi86 SG

i like older gers.

they are very hot and mature and charismatic and know how to flirt with you.

fatone SG

burndog85 SG

I love older girls, my gf is 3 years older than me.

But then I tend to get along with them every well compared to younger girls.

Stucktoes SG

Dont even remember the age. Just talk to her like she is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. Sometimes, even if you guys are 6 years apart, but can communicate, no problem one.

dangerboi SG

go for her regardless of whether she's a boy friend.

kindly nt go for her if she's married.

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