couple of weeks ago my grandmother had passed away and my mother
and sister went to her funeral. she instructed my sister to bring
camcoder and camera to flim down the funeral.
so after they return, monther instructed sister to burn the
videos and photos in to CDs and distribute it to the relatives.
so, come to think of it, isnt it ridiculous and stupid to do all
this stuff when every1 are trying to get over the sadness of death
while my mother is trying very hard to ensure the death haunt every
of the relatives.
It's not up to you to judge your mother. If your grandmother is
upset with your mother, she will let her know....and I'm sure you
don't want to know about it. 
If what your mother is doing is indeed rude to your grandmother,
then isn't it more rude to cremate her or bury her alone six feet
under?
And if you realised no matter what you do to a dead person
is all going to be rude to some people one way or the other, why do
you not question how come it's alright to burn/bury a dead
person but it's not alright to distribute photos/videos/CDs of a
dead person?
It all comes down to the intentions behind those actions. People
are able to recognise the intentions and mature enough to
understand but not condemn their actions.
HOWEVER
IF your mother is selling those CDs/photos/videos in pasar
malam/ebay/dvd video shops and making a huge untaxable profits out
of your dead grandmother, then of course your mother is wrong and
you need to phone police and arrest her at once.
BUT....I'm just joking, and I'm sure nobody is going to do such
a thing even during bad times at the present.
RIGHT?
