how do u ask a girl why shes avoiding u

burg SG

not whether u should or not. how. just wondering what ur opinions are. thanks

cheers

FireIce SG

if she is avoiding u, do u want to irritate her more by asking why?

CannyOng SG

not whether u should or not. how. just wondering what ur opinions are. thanks

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I think she don't want to be hurt further...

purpledragon84 SG

u dont, u leave her alone.

ItchyArmpit SG

lol reminds me of this...

me and this girl close friend.. got a few days in a row.. she keep talking to other ppl instead of me... i felt wierd... and of cuz i like her too... so i ask her why.. conversation goes like this..

me: eh.. wats up with u? why u like keep talk to ***... dun ignore me leh...
girl : huh really ar? i see u keep talking to ***** so i tot i would disturb u ma..

*we apologise then told each other how we felt*

me: so next time see me must talk to me hor.. arbo will feel wierd wierd de...
girl: ok.. u also!

then next day..she come to me and keep talking all the lame stuffs... tho i enjoy it so much.. i act as if it was normal...haha

but yeah.. our relationship is just close friend haha... the type where more the normal friends and less than couple type..

Dondontan SG

not whether u should or not. how. just wondering what ur opinions are. thanks

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Tendency is she is not interested in you and telling you not to bother her.

swiftydonuts SG

That happened to me once. My classmate and I stay at same estate so always take the same bus to and back from school n we can talk about almost anything under the sun. All of a sudden one day she started ignoring and kept avoiding me. Tried to approach her hoping i that i can make up to her coz I tot I hurt her unintentionally. No feelings for her, just simply close friends. I tried for 2-3mths and my efforts were of no avail and i grew tired of it. About 7-8mths later, she stood infront of my desk one day and started laughing, then she said it was all just a joke.

laURanaBabe SG

意思浅浅了..still need to ask? tsk tsk....

ItchyArmpit SG

huh.. i was happy ever after...

even during holidays we meet up often...

muahhahaha..

but in my opinion.. for donuts case.. it is like looking for attention?
and i think the girl treated donut too lightly..

fatone SG

not whether u should or not. how. just wondering what ur opinions are. thanks

cheers

chase her with a sledgehammer, she'll be urs.

tested and proven.

rlsh07 SG

just ask lo

cathykitty SG

what makes u tink she is avoiding u?

if u two were nt close friends and u didn't have a fight or anything tt needs to be resolved, i tink maybe u can just leave it.

it will make things btw u more awkward if u ask her.

fatone SG

did u tried the sledgehammer?

burg SG

hahaa, some interesting stories u guys shared but my situation is similar to itchyarmpit so yea thanks maybe i will try what u did.

Devil1976 SG

Girls...

You can ask, but would she truthfully tell.....?

ifish SG

avoid as in totally avoid??

some gals can avoid u till die die infront of u also wont eye contact but msn and sms will always disturb u one.

burg SG

devil1976, i agree with u man. but bo bian ah, part of life, we as males must endure.

ifish, yea some girls prefer msn and sms. dunno why le.

ItchyArmpit SG

hahaa, some interesting stories u guys shared but my situation is similar to itchyarmpit so yea thanks maybe i will try what u did.

ooooooooo... so u like the girl...

rmb to be urself.. and be honest with ur feelings...

just that the girl i am dealing with has a mature thinking... so i have not much prob..

good luck
IA

parn SG

not whether u should or not. how. just wondering what ur opinions are. thanks

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First of all....How do you know she's avoiding you?

udontknowme SG

the last time this guy had the cheek to ask why i was ignoring him, i told him 'because you piss me off'.

and he still dared to say sorry and ask what he did that was annoying.

tmd....i told him that everything abt him was annoying. so pls fuck off and leave me alone.

erm.....i think that worked...?

or a lot of times i avoid pple because i feel they are getting too close to me. and i don't want them to be close to me >.<