here some details abt me, 18 year old guy, just finish A levels,
waiting for ns.
my mom expects me to be home at 10pm, if more thn that my phone
will be ringing non stop. when i go out with frends, she will probe
me for hell lot of times who am i going out with. recently, i was
tellin her that after my prom nite i have post prom activites over
at a pub or smth, she said i cant go.
i mean i dun get the rationale behind all this shit. if i am a
14 or 16 yr old kid well, that kind of treatment i still can try to
accept. but i mean here i m a 18 year old guy, n there ur tryin to
probe into my social life, i noe she cares abt me, but i believe
this is just getting to restrictive. Im the only child btw, but
come on, i nid to have frens isnt it? and its not that i go out
every nite to party,just once in a ablue moon, even some of my
female frens have that kind of freedom. i dun understand my
parents, or maybe to be exact, my mom. she just wans to control
everything. even the way i spent money, she will probe on what i
spent on, check my wallet when im asleep( pretend), check my bag.
etc. this i just way too much. i cant stand it animore.
guys i nid ur help, ani suggestion to get me out of this
shit?
Print 20x copies of your quoted post and scatter them around the
house and your room.
Even if your Mum failed to talk to you about it, at least now
she knows how you are feeling right now. 
It's alot better this way than being confronted by her own
child.
