The other solution is to give it a miss.
You currently with a guy whom is experienced enough to make you
feel like believing in love all over again. The thing is he's very
sweet (because he got intentions, duh) to you so far, his past also
hinted it's going to end with you getting hurt again.
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The whole point is, sure you can lay down lotsa enough rules to
fill the whole house. But to a player, rules are meant to be
flouted; to be played around. End of day, if he were to screw up
and you were to ditch him - you still end up getting hurt, isn't
it?
Save your 'feel like believing' for a decent guy please.
hi nisi,
i probably shouldn't say this but detached hit the nail on the
head.
for people who take r/s lightly (some call them players), rules
are meant to be broken, to be messed with and tested. there are men
and women out there who will push their luck to see how far you
will bend.
no matter how serious you are, no matter how much assurance you
force him to provide, no matter what he does right now to prove his
worth to you, as long as you take his bait, there is always the
possibility he will fish you for a bite and then bail.
on the other hand, if you're the patient and nurturing kind,
there is also always the possibility he will be moved by your
patience and settle with you for good.
life is a gamble. here's hoping.
