No, I don't feel the same way as I do with other guys. It is
very different.
As for my boyfriend, when I first held his hand, I felt a rush
of like wanting sex? Like, I want more.
With him, it is just simple liking. Yes, I do admit I like
holding his hand, but simple liking. I will not die not holding his
hand!
Even more so than my other friends? Well, come to think of it,
yes, only when you asked then I realized...I never meant to do it
on purpose, just that you asked and..I just realized..
Should I stop contacting him for a period of time ?
I tried to clear things up. I typed a lot in a document and sent
it to him in it I asked him this:
"******, have you ever thought of me as your girlfriend when we
go out?"
The next day he replied me in an sms saying, "oh yah, the answer
you want, my answer is the same as yours, so don't need worry."
I included my own answer to my question. Which was no.
The minute I read that sentence in his sms, my heart fell for no
apparent reason. I couldn't stop myself from feeling sad? Why? But
I am so sure I don't have any feelings for him-his character.
I am just so confused?
when I first held his hand, he didn't shake away but instead
held mine back. I was shocked. And also every time I hold his hand
at the start, that tingly feeling is very obvious. More of shock
than of wanting more.
when I lied on his shoulder, he would slid down a bit so that
his shoulder is lower for me to lie on.
when I raised my arms wanting a hug, he actually gave it to me.
Again I was shocked. But grateful. That night I was emo and he pei
me till morning.
Once, when we went to sing kbox, he even brought along a
backpack just to put a jacket. I was teasing him about it too. Just
a jacket, and you bring a backpack?
When I said I was cold in the kbox, he lent me his jacket to
wear..
He...bring jacket for what when he was wearing a black long
sleeved shirt?
Or maybe, it was all just my imagination.
My boyfriend...he hasn't visited me once in sg..
He doesn't have a passport..He is planning
But since last year...I am sad many times that not once he has
come sg to be with me, that he has been saying coming to sg since
last year but he has not done it..I don't want empty promises, I'd
rather you not make any at all.
But I can wait.
I don't know if this tingly feeling is chemistry. But I know,
since he has already told me he isn't interested in me, even IF I
like him, it would be no use, right? I don't anyway.
Thanks for the quick responses, you guys are the best (:
And if you're asking me, I am a girl. I'm not bisexual or
anything. Straight.
Dadedum,
Do you know that you have rejected your friend.. before he can
say yes ?
As a guy.. he also has pride.. after you said no.. are you
expecting a yes from him ?
Perhaps if you had said yes.. he woulda replied yes to you
too.
It is rather obvious.. your boyfriend ... he is not a very
reliable person.
Trust me.. he is only in Malaysia.. and he couldn't even be
bothered to come visit you in Singapore.. I wonder.. is he really
that into you ? Or is your relationship a one sided one..
really.
I hav a friend .. and her boyfriend lives in London.. he would
fly across the globe just to meet up with my girl friend.. after
several months.. of this trans continental relationship.. they got
married.. THAT.. is love.
Your boyfriend... I dunno girl... maybe it;s time you
reconsider.Perhaps he is more lust than love.
If I am you.. I'd give your friend a chance...
Since you rejected him first.. you should restart the
relationship first.
Let him know how you truly feels.. and see where it goes from
there...
Chemistry don't happen very often.. If I am you.. I'd cherish it
.. and make it bloom into a beautiful relationship.
