I've Got A Love Prob =(

A.T.R SG

I'm 15...tis year..2008...i've got a GF...she's 14...we've been together for quite long alrdy....i'm not sure if we shuld continue....u might say its puppy love or wad....but i just now...i love her..and i dun really think she does even if she says so...cause she's hasn't been doing much for me and gives me some fucked up attitudes sometimes...but i understand tat we can't have romantic moments all the time...cause i noe...her parents dun allow BGR....i respect tat....and i dun take it to heart tat she doesn't hang out wit me more than her frens to prevent and suspicions and gossip which could lead to let her parents noe about it..My parents are okay wit me having a GF....and nowadays...she's been giving me tis type of attitude everytime i chat wit her on msn which is like..keep ignoring wad i'm saying and doesn't give a damn respect to wad i'm saying....and now...she's asking me...to give her sometime to let her tink whether I and her are meant to be together....i'm okay wit it...let her be and wait for her answer...

So Someone Please Tell Me Wad To Do...I'm so Hopeless....Am I In The Wrong? ='(

thehappybunny SG

ditch her

Maith SG

how is she like?

Fatum SG

whatever you do ... just don't bonk before she's 16 .... else you'll find yourself in deeeeeep deeeeeep shit .....

A.T.R SG

bonk? she's pretty innocent...listens to her mum onli..dunnoe wad her mum hypnotises her everyy night whn she talks to her.....she's always keeping stuffs and her probs from me which i love to hear and help her out....i'm always caring for her watching over her...

Maith SG

well how long have u both been together? if she doesnt want to share her problems with u,tht means she dont feel close to u. have u talked abt ur problems n troubles to her? u must share urs first before she share with hers

parn SG

If you have been pushing too much of your unwanted attention onto her, then I'm not surprised that she is irritated by you.

Give her your attentiveness ONLY when she needs, asks, demands, converse with you.

Other than that, you should be playing with your Transformers while she plays with her Barbie.

A.T.R SG

well...i did....but seldom....cause i've got tis feeling tat she's always busy wit chores,homework and stuffs...and so yea thought she won't listen much even if i shared mine....=\ but yea..she used to.....now she doesn't....have i been watching over too much....i mean i dun control her around..its okay if she doesn't be the one who sms me b4 i do.....maybe i've been asking too much help from her frens to keep an close eye on her and make sure she doesn't fall sick and hurt herself...=\

Shotgun SG

Aww poor thing.

Its a bit unreasonable to expect people to give you 100% attention on phone/msn/whatever right? If she's busy, she's busy.

By asking your friend to keep an eye on her, to you might sound like a nice thing, to her it might sound like you're spying on her turning into a possessive freak. Thats generally not nice.

You have to accept that relationships at your age come and go. Just don't get into trouble with them.

Can't really tell you what to do, but I can tell you what Not to do; commit suicide. You're young, just learn to have fun and enjoy the friends that you have.

Maith SG

for now,go to sleep and dont think abt it. When u wake up tmr u will feel better and able to think things through more clearly alright (:

mancha SG

Give her a chance to develop her character.

She's only 14, you are stifling her, and yourself too.

Give her a chance to widen her circle of friends, and yours too.

Let her be a teenager, and do all the teenage stuff till she's 19, and you too.

This is her only chance of being a teenager, and you too.

This is the age you form your character for the rest of your life.

You blow it here, the rest of your life you will be directionless.

A.T.R SG

but dude...to me...frens are stupid....they are full of bullshit.....family is wads impt...have fun...duh...i go jamming thrice a week......=.=i'm having so much fun now...but just tat tis prob keeps getting in my head...everytime i'm alone...and of course i won't commit suicide man!!i still have to fufill my music career in future...zz=.=

A.T.R SG

okay....Maith.....i'll get some sleep now...but the nxt day....i wake up...wad am i suppose to do about tis....tis prob has beeen going on for days...and i've been sitting all day tinking about wad to do...and nth comes out of my head...everyday!!OMG get tis agony out of me!!...plz tell em wad to do guys!!

Shotgun SG

Are you ready for the first hard lesson to being a man?

A.T.R SG

are u teaching me a lesson now?lol!?=\

Shotgun SG

Yes, its called, "Deal with it."

Learn how to deal with your emotions and manage your expectations.

A.T.R SG

Teach Me!!MASTER SHOTGUN!!!!=\

gunner77 SG

break up

go and study hard

this kind of things can wait.

A.T.R SG

but gunner....i love tis girl a lot...and you're telling me to break up wit her its not easy....

gunner77 SG

look lets get this picture right,

love is about 2 person willing to love each other.

u love her, we all know that.

but does she love u? think about it..

its not fair for u to get her to "love u" when she is ovbiously not ready for it