SPLIT SECOND SG Anyone bugged by this feeling especially in your 20s, that all of sudden, u start to think what happen to u once yr parents are not around I amnot still not married yet as i have not met the right girl yet. But have this fear. How to deal with it.
Ferret SG what do u mean... "what happen to u" ??Sad loh, but life goes on. Nobardy lives forever. However, if u r worried that without them, you cannotch survive, then that will be the true tragedy..
SPLIT SECOND SG i stayed with my parents till now. The thought of suddenly losing them will drive me crazy.
SPLIT SECOND SG but if i died first, they will suffer, so i shall tell myself, that i am doing them a favour. Atleast they will not feel without me if they pass on earlier.
Lorry` SG Sometimes i wonder what will happen if my mom isnt around.Because im close to her.... shes the only person in my family that im close to. I bet I'd change to a complete different person if shes gone. I dont know.I try not to think too much.
SPLIT SECOND SG sometimes such issue just come to your mind, better to think and prepare for it than caught offguard.
Lorry` SG sometimes such issue just come to your mind, better to think and prepare for it than caught offguard.but what do you mean by 'prepare' ? and how to prepare?I just have this thought since last time.. because if shes gone, i dont have anyone to talk to in the family anymore. Maybe just my younger bro.
agnelli SG hmm there were a few times when i think about this topic out the blue, and especially one day everyone will die including yourself, kept thinking what will happen when i m old or near that stage haha. Funny thing is i only think of all these when trying to fall asleep at night.
the_fallen SG TS: why are you having such a negative thoughts about it?does it means that you're worried about you not able to fend for yourself?since this is giving you headache..and you want to do your parents a favour..why not take this chance to grow yourself in mental and emotional wellness..thus you will become a better child and a better adult-to-be..
SPLIT SECOND SG Yu see, i dont have any sibings, only cousins. my fammily is only three of us, my mum, dad and me only.
BrUtUs SG Anyone bugged by this feeling especially in your 20s, that all of sudden, u start to think what happen to u once yr parents are not around I amnot still not married yet as i have not met the right girl yet. But have this fear. How to deal with it.they will leave someday so jz treat them well n make urself successful... dun throw their face...
HeroTime SG Make the most of the time you have with them right now. It's going to happen eventually and it's going to suck when it does. Is there anyway to prepare for that ?Not really.
SPLIT SECOND SG one of my working mates, a 40s man, almost double my age , both his parents passed away. He never married. According to him, such loneliness can be dealth with if1) involve in charity2) Involve in politics3) involve with a girl4) having memories of a past love and living with it.