I betrayed my best friend

parn SG

i understand ur underlining meaning le..

he installed some kind of IP tracking program, i login he knows le

If he allowed you to know his password and he REALLY doesn't want anyone else to login into his email account, then he should also cycle his password regularly.

Even if he can install some IP tracking program, he's also not smart enough to trace the IP back to you. It can be anyone~

And I don't think you're that "smart" to have a static IP too.

How come he's so smart to install IP tracking program but not smart enough to change his password regularly?

He enjoys seeing his prey falls into temption is it?

Is you friend happened to be a Praying Mantis?

daigooro SG

If he allowed you to know his password and he REALLY doesn't want anyone else to login into his email account, then he should also cycle his password regularly.

Even if he can install some IP tracking program, he's also not smart enough to trace the IP back to you. It can be anyone~

And I don't think you're that "smart" to have a static IP too.

How come he's so smart to install IP tracking program but not smart enough to change his password regularly?

He enjoys seeing his prey falls into temption is it?

Is you friend happened to be a Praying Mantis?

erm, well he says icqmail can't change password.. i dunno anything abt that..

and i logged in campus, thats why the IP is showing school.. and only me and his brother have his password..

he's not a praying mantis ah, why u think that way parn?

Cool-gal SG

if i were ur fren, i will be extremely mad.

ya, i wont forgive u.

so forget it. a lesson learnt.

learn to respect ple as much as u want respect from others.

if u were him, confirm ki siao oso..

daigooro SG

if i were ur fren, i will be extremely mad.

ya, i wont forgive u.

so forget it. a lesson learnt.

learn to respect ple as much as u want respect from others.

if u were him, confirm ki siao oso..

okay. to be honest i wouldnt be that mad cos he's a impt friend, make mistakes if know what to change should be okay one... but of cos talk is cheap

ORIGAMIST SG

your relationship with your friend - quite funny ... both give each other their password and expect they do not read each other mail ...?? I supposed this is your friendship ... so you should know better what to do ... again I stress , let him cool down. .. he will forgive you one.. I forgive my friend when he made mistake without him asking .. vice versa ... yours ? you should know better . . . . how to deal . ...

daigooro SG

many of our cliche thinks we're a pair of special friends.....

to be frank origa, i dont know what to do.

i didnt want to talk to him alrdy.. but just now he pm me abt some hmwk and we talked quite normally like before and i pop out that question abt we being back to best friends liao ah? and he said no just norm friends....

if i dun even noe what to do abt this friendship, are we even best friends in the start? i'm grateful to have advice from u cos u really seems to know how i feel......

ORIGAMIST SG

many of our cliche thinks we're a pair of special friends.....

to be frank origa, i dont know what to do.

if i dun even noe what to do abt this friendship, are we even best friends in the start? i'm grateful to have advice from u cos u really seems to know how i feel......

aiyo ... when he pm you and you were discussing, you shouldn't had pop the question... since your friendship is special, well it will heal and develop again ... then again, if he say no when you pop the question, he may be saying it just to spike you or he is not ready to say, " let's go back to before and pretend nothing had happen " ... maybe, it his way of punishing you.. so your case is not that serious and you shouldn't take is as such ...

daigooro SG

got so complicated de meh..... i also hope he want to punish me or smth, at least i will feel better.. u will not punish someone u really hate rite~

but but hor, betrayal of trust is reay serious after i read thru what ppl post....

than again xie xie ni uncle origa

ORIGAMIST SG

got so complicated de meh..... i also hope he want to punish me or smth, at least i will feel better.. u will not punish someone u really hate rite~

but but hor, betrayal of trust is reay serious after i read thru what ppl post....

than again xie xie ni uncle origa

he punish you and you will feel better OR keep quite and let you suffer in silence .. which is more deadly ... ? If I were to be him, I will let you guessing for a longer time so your punishment is longer than to say I am angry with you and start scolding you and everything is over ... it so short and an easy way out for you ... think about it... be patience now and be good... no need to thank me la. ... just share share experience ...

jojobeach SG

many of our cliche thinks we're a pair of special friends.....

to be frank origa, i dont know what to do.

if i dun even noe what to do abt this friendship, are we even best friends in the start? i'm grateful to have advice from u cos u really seems to know how i feel......

Haiz... not only you like to kaypoh other people private email.. you also don't know when to keep your mouth shut.

Next time hor.. think before you do things can anot ?

daigooro SG

Haiz... not only you like to kaypoh other people private email.. you also don't know when to keep your mouth shut.

Next time hor.. think before you do things can anot ?

what do u mean by when to keep my mouth shut. did i blabber too much?

daigooro SG

anyway topic closed.

i done my part in apologising if he wants to accept it so be it.

its not like ppl don't make mistakes, all those that bash me here & ask me to die, they can ask themselves if they made any mistakes. i dont believe no one will say never.

thanks for the constructive comments, i've learnt alot.

ORIGAMIST SG

glad you have decided to close this chapter and move on .. when you post here, be prepared to take criticism ... comments comes both way - good and bad ... at least you know you had done something very bad and most if not all will approve it ... take it easy ... life goes on . .

Cool-gal SG

anyway topic closed.

i done my part in apologising if he wants to accept it so be it.

its not like ppl don't make mistakes, all those that bash me here & ask me to die, they can ask themselves if they made any mistakes. i dont believe no one will say never.

thanks for the constructive comments, i've learnt alot.

ok, next time dun mess with an IT expert..

heehee..

ya la, go n find new frenz...

cheers

limpper SG

eh, TS, you taking PSLE this year?

parn SG

daigooro, One song dedicated to you.

=== Careless Whisper ===

Time can never mend,
The careless whisper of a good friend.
To the heart and mind,
If your answers kind...
Theres no comfort in the truth,
Pain is all you'll find.

I feel so unsure,
As I take your hand and lead you to the dance floor.
As the music dies...
Something in your eyes,
Calls to mind a silver screen,
And all its sad goodbyes.

Chorus
Im never gonna dance again,
Guilty feet have got no rhythm.
Though it's easy to pretend,
I know you're not a fool.
I should have known better than to cheat a friend,
And waste a chance that I've been given.
So I'm never gonna dance again,
The way I danced with you.

daigooro SG

Thanks Parn, I finid ur words always so enriching.

Uncle Origa, my friend and I talked it over lunch and he forgive me le. now i'm changing to show that I respect him as my best friend and such. we cleared alot of things now and i feel really comfortable with our friendship.

thank you all for the words of advice and such, I wouldnt be able to do it without them.

thank you.

ORIGAMIST SG

Glad it work out for you so soon ... treasure it and do not for any reason betray it again ... all the best . ..

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