Hello everyone. (:
Intro of the people involved:
1. My ex
(Jonathan)
We were from the same sec sch. We dated when I was sec 3, and he
was one year older.
However, due to some childish reasons, we broke up. We did stay in
contact, mainly using msn.
Last year during Aug, (i'm already in jc, he went privatesch).
Then he attended one of my college event. So we met up after the
event. And we were back into a r/s.
4 months later (Dec), he turned cold and so we broke up.
2. My JC BFF
(Jenny)
She was my best friend during these two years, till now.
And she knows Jonathan too, 'cause he often drop by my school to
send me home.
3. And me,
obviously
(Names are faked)
THE STORY:
Long story cut short.
I just found out few weeks ago that since this Jan08.
Jenny was with
Jonathan.
They'd been together for 8months already, and still is
together.
Let's see, Jon and me broke up during Dec. And they got together
in January. What are the chances that he turned cold was NOT
because of Jenny's existence?
I'd asked her why she steals my guy, but she denies doing so.
Both Jenny and Jonathan insist that they are just two singles
getting together.
She lied to me for so long. Yet, pretending to be my best friend
for these 8 months.
I'm terribly upset by her actions.
I don't understand how some people can be so selfish.
I'd said I forgive her, though I refused to talk to her.
I'd even grant both of them happiness, but sometimes I regret what
I'd said.
Sometimes, I still hate her.
Did I do the right thing? Should I not have forgiven her?
Perhaps we should always look back upon
the reason why Love blossomed in the first place.
Surely when the relationship was formed, your Love was
pristine.
But as the relationship gradually perish abruptly, your
bitterness overshadowed this very Love that came and left. You
might speculate and derive a logical deduction
that your best friend is responsible for snatching your
boyfriend away - but that merely debase your
Love into that of a quantifiable possession that
mindlessly oscillate where the wind blows stronger.
Something that was lost? Or is it because your
enervated relationship was already feeble in the first place
and the foundation could not sustain against the test of
reality?
Real love stands adamantly like a rock, for those that
sway are but pebbles. When our relationship fails, instead of
allocating blame in our external environment, perhaps we must
always introspect and look at ourselves first.
We are not perfect either.
And we are but imperfect being trying to perfect
our relationship.
Why feel acrimonious when you have merely given up a man
that doesn't fit the your puzzle?
Perhaps, to others, it might be just right.
But surely, it's not your lost since
it's unfitting. 
Cheers