Any difference?
I'd like to know what the girls in this forum thinks. I
know i've posted this in another section but i want to know more
opinions about this.
You see, my girlfriend keeps insisting that her going out with
her guy friends (1:1) is just nothing. And its not a date.
Guy friends that she meets online and meets personally for
the first time on that "date". We've had several arguments
about this because to me going out with a guy is the same as having
a date with him. Like i wouldn't spend time and effort if i
don't like this person.
Now, its quite different if you've been friends with this guy
friend of yours for a long time. That i can take and
understand that its just a friendly date. But to go out with
a total stranger just to meet him and be friends to him is
something im not comfortable with.
I f you are feeling insecure, a heart to heart talk is really the
best.
For the relationship to work out, she may have to compromise a
little.
On another thought, do you spend very little time with her and
were you there when she needs you? Because you also need to reflect
on your own actions and behavior and see if they contribute to her
desire of meeting and knowing more people of the opposite
gender.
