i broke up with my ex over simple squables. i just didnt wanna
give in. actually its just a petty fight.. and i kinda regretted
it...
i wanted him back and i told him to think it over.. when he
finnaly msg me to like go for dinner, he said he misses me a lil
but doesnt know what he wants yet. then when we were about to go
for dinner, he said last minute he cant make it cosh his fren
having relationship problem. he was explaining to me because his
fren want to propose to the girlfriend already and if we can just
meet some other day but im stupid enough to reply him, i give
up.
haiz.. then i told him, i didnt mean to say that.. i missed him
so bad that i called him up last week. i told him, i wont disturb
him this time round to let him think thoroughly. i didnt msgd him
or call him up till today. its been a wk... haiz..
i msgd him wether i can meet him but he never replied me. so i
called him up. i asked wether he can meet me today and he asked for
what. i told him because i miss him. he didnt reply. so i asked
again wether i can meet him today and he said no. i asked him back,
wether does he want to give our relationship another chance?.. and
he said he need more time.
does he really need time? i saw his msn greeting saying
yesterday.. "lonely saturday night"
we broke up before because it was a long distance relationship
last year but when i got back this year, he asked me back.
so i dont know wether this time round is it really over..?
Why insist on getting back together when he
isn't ready?
You seemed to run your relationship based on the fluctuation of
your emotions - it's no wonder why your relationship would often
vacillate into both extremes and end up snapping violently.
Before you decide to patch, you got to consider some things very
carefully: if the management of your relationship is still going to
persist in such a fashion, then you will probably break up
somewhere later in the future... again. Coming back together is no
magic - it's just a decision to return back to old shit. Returning
'home' on a later date doesn't mean that the old shit are cleanse -
it's still there waiting for you to do something about it.
Unless you make sure that your relationship evolved through your
own human revolution - there isn't a point to return - just because
your emotions feel like it has to be it, doesn't mean it has to be
it. 
Cheers
