well i have this vietnam GF
we dont really able to talk to each other because
1 she dont speak chinese or english she only understand limited
(but she trying very hard learning now)
2 i dont speak vietnames
but we have kind of specially feeling for each other. and this
is the 1st time im experiancing love that dont really required to
talk so much......... im kind of enjoying this at this monent. its
like 2 mute ppl dating and we dont even know hands sigh*
we express our concent for each other through action (and i dont
mean sex)
we care about for each other and we go out every time we are
able to
however she only able to stay limited period. she only allow 1
month and have to go back 1 month be4 she can come here again.
im thinking of marring her but of couse i need to consider a lot
of things. im 32 this year. about time, and i feel i have found the
1.
but the last dating we have i suddenly have this strange feeling
cause normally i sleep alone (- -)
and suddenly there another person sleeping beside u
................ i feel strange.............
whahahaha maybe i have marriage forbier (- -) <--- dont know
how to spell ............
My bro has a Viet gf too, & like you, they hav communication
barriers. And like u too, they are separated by two
different places.
But im touched by the love tat my bro (27) & his gf
(22) share..
In order to minimise the barriers, my bro bought a viet language
self learning book + a viet dictionary. I have nvr seen my
bro THAT interested in studyin durin his sch days.
And his gf in turn, took some chinese class in her own
country. They communicate via phone every nite, tokin in
broken mixed languages onli both of them understand.
My bro makes an effort to go over for a week every 3 -
6mths.
Both of them do not have much savings, and they r planning to
get married soon..my bro started to take up extra job outside so
tat he has extra allowances, he hopes to marry his gf & brings
her over ASAP.
And they have been together for a yr + now.
Love concurs all barriers! I believe u are onli havin some
doubts abt marriage, cos afterall, u r so used to sleeping
alone! U need to do somethin to reassure urself tat
everything is gonna be fine if you are 100% sure tat she is THE
ONE. 
