i would like to hear especially the opinions of guys.
what's your take on someone who went all the way to where you
live to meet you once, but converse not regularly over the months
thru sms and msn, who told you that he's obviously attracted to you
and that "i shd know", one who articulates well, has experiences of
friends to share, one who says he didn't like to be contacted via
phone calls due to the nature of his prev job where he had to be on
phone for long hours and that his health "suffers", but ask "why
didn't you call?" on the topic of "women have needs too", asks me
whether it would be the last time he sees of me, yet never set a
date & time to ask me out.
Though he did once out of a sudden sms, ask me to go along with
him the next day for something he needs to handle & due to the
confusion of all these mixed signals, i didn't reply. And hours
later he suddenly told me that he couldn't make it either. Days
after, he told me he had gotten his stuff done already. And when i
assume that he had forgotten all abt wanting to meet me for the 2nd
time, he gets offended and said dun ever think that he's forgotten
abt it all. He sometimes takes hours to reply a sms and sometimes
never replying at all. After several weeks of non-contact, he
initiated contact thru sms passing on a forwarded joke when he had
previously told me he's not one into such impersonal stuff as he
"type all the messages personally" himself. And then after some
exchange, he sms "not to expect anything from you but you have not
been forgotten".
Tell me, what kind of guy do you see here?
