A lot of problems facing at work currently...... It seems that
I'm really having a lot of problems talking with other people as I
have never talked a lot with other people about my problems or
talked heart to heart because of afraid of being influenced.
The only people which I open up to are two of my old friends
which are outside of the place I work.
I'm really troubled and it seems that the job really requires me
to talk and be very social and talkative with them, which I can't
do well......
not difficult one la .. conversation on topics that isn't
about work, but occurs within the context of work is rarely
deep, if of any substance at all. who ask you to talk
heart-to-heart. not some love hotline you know.
i give you example.
A: "Hey! Mr X hot day yea?"
X: "Yea damn hot ..."
A: "Singapore for you. How was your w'end?"
X: "blah blah blah blah blah"
A: "O RLY? how was it? i was thinking of doing the same"
X: "blah blah blah blah blah"
of course X will also ask A some questions. that's conversation
for you. mots important thing is to ghek your smile ... give off
that false radiance, and confidence. inside you can be sian but
don't let it show.
i tell u another thing, u never want to get too involved with
your associates/networks. keep it biz. also coz if they tell you
something personal, and you forget, damn malu. example:
X: "I have 3 daughters"
... 2 weeks later ...
A: "hey! how's your son?"
X: ".......... ccb"