fixing a broken friendship

last SG · 2008-09-10T18:22:11+00:00

leave him alone to cool down, don't intefere with his lifepatch up only when he has cooled down, anything before this will only make your effort go down the...

themoment86 SG

it goes like this..

i betray my friend by 挑拨离间 him and his gf...not once not twice but thrice..i feel very bad why is it that i cant change...actually before that i was together with my friend..but broken off becoz of my character i guess..now that i have change...and i betray him is also becoz i still have feeling for him..which is why i always threaten him to tell his gf about us last time...he forgive me alot of times..

but this time rd he seems determined to leave me..which i seriously cannot take it..all the while i am always with him..hang out..hav fun and even working together..now without him my life is like...super dull lo...

any idea to fix this relationship?for now i only wan to maintain friends with him nia..no other motive..i have already apologies to him many times...and i never seen him for very long liao...i miss him..*as a friend nia la*

skythewood SG

find a new guy.

Fantagf SG

Talk to him lah. If he refuses to remain as a friend to u, then too bad, you are reaping what you sow earlier, congrats.

icyboiz SG

grats yr fruit is ripe

Fantagf SG

grats yr fruit is ripe

She is enjoy the fruit of her labour. Great harvest.

Rednano SG

Talk to him lah. If he refuses to remain as a friend to u, then too bad, you are reaping what you sow earlier, congrats.

in another view, u r a 3rd party...

Beautiful951 SG

Hmm, I have read the tarot for you.The advise is for you to be discrete, so you should not go too close to him for a period of time. Instead, go with your other friends instead, and your problem will be solved after a while. Thought it will not be in a way that you expected.

If you get a chance to be friends with him again, you must be more careful and avoid his girlfriend. But I do not promise that.

Fantagf SG

in another view, u r a 3rd party...

You mean TS or me? I don't know her guy friend hor. She sounds bitchy and self centred.

Fantagf SG

If you get a chance to be friends with him again, you must be more careful and avoid his girlfriend. But I do not promise that.

Tarot master, when will she get a new bf then?

Beautiful951 SG

Tarot master, when will she get a new bf then?

I don't know. I did not read that for her. Timelines are harder to read.

Rednano SG

You mean TS or me? I don't know her guy friend hor. She sounds bitchy and self centred.

TS lor.. 挑拨离间 leh...

Fantagf SG

Hope TS learns her lesson.

Beautiful951 SG

Don't be like this. She is now asking for help, we should help her first.

Rednano SG

Don't be like this. She is now asking for help, we should help her first.

lay low for the moment of time, then after some months later... then talk.

Beautiful951 SG

lay low for the moment of time, then after some months later... then talk.

Even if you say that, should she say sorry again or appear as if nothing has happened?

Rednano SG

Even if you say that, should she say sorry again or appear as if nothing has happened?

minimise the bringin up of the story, say somethin like 'let bygones by bygones' kinda lines at the meeting that will happen after months later

Beautiful951 SG

minimise the bringin up of the story, say somethin like 'let bygones by bygones' kinda lines at the meeting that will happen after months later

Well, but the TS is not here to see our comments.

themoment86 SG

ok la~i know i am a bitch...frankly and seriously..i feel that way too..now super duper regret liao...just wan to mend this relationship..haix..i so stupid..

skythewood SG

relax. just find a new guy.

themoment86 SG

it's not ez to find someone whom you can hang out and have common interest..when we were out, we can do everything together..it's like..we like the same thing..have the same hobby..neither of us will feel bored when we were together...there is always alot of laughter...suddenly he is gone..i am like..lost track...damn sad..