How would you react when you are with this girl for quite some
time and you realize she’s a divorced with a kid? And when
confronted her, she say she scare that you would dump her and
prefer to be silent instead…
You would want to react based on your initial intentions of
knowing her.
IF you don't really like her but just want to be friends only
(LIAR), then it wouldn't matters if she's a mother of 1000 kids or
1 kid.
IF your initial intentions were to love and be together with
her, then you wouldn't mind if she got 1000 kids or 1 kid, cos
afterall those kids were produced by the woman that you loved and
want to be together with.
BUT if your initial intentions were just out for a fling, then
of course you would be upset, disappointed that someone else or
many other else (1000 guys) got to her first before
you.
It depends what do you really want out of this
relationship/friendship/any-ship with her.
But it would be WISE to understand that YOU WEREN'T IN HER PAST
TO SAVE HER, so why would you think you have any RIGHTS to be upset
about?
Since you think you should be upset with her past, then Should
she be upset with you for not showing up at her past?
She had to LIE to you to protect both the happiness of you and
her, and when she had to put this happiness that were shared
by both of you at RISKS, do you still have any reasons to
doubt that she's not in love with you? 