Hey people,
Nice forum, nice people too. :D Right, pls help me with this.
I'm really going nuts thinking over this. There's this girl that I
have come to fancy recently but she seems to be giving me mixed
signals.
Alright, everytime we go out, the past 4 times, have always been
me calling her. We don't talk on the phone at home but everytime we
go out, we would always have a lot of fun, tease each other. I
enjoy teasing her, seeing her embarassed reaction and I think
she does too. Then we would sit down during makan and chit chat for
hours. I would always call her "auntie" and she calls me
"uncle".
Then there was one time, I told her, "give me your hand". I
grabbed it and held it. However, she resisted and withdrew it. Then
she mumbled to herself, "what are u doing?" I just laughed it off
quite loudly too. (my god, what else??) Then she started smiling
again and showed me her palm, telling me this is how I shd read
palms.
And then a few days later, I asked her out on a sat
(again). We had the usual teasing on the phone, names calling
etc etc and she said she's ok to come out. She even suggested a
place to eat. But that sat, she was held up at work till
very late. She sms me that she couldn't make the appt and then
an hour later, she knocked off and went back. I called her but she
didn;t pick up. Then later she called me back, saying she didn't
realise the phone ringing. I asked her if she was free to meet near
her place at 830pm. Time was 8pm then. She said she had a stressful
day and wants to rest.
Well, rest is very impt to her and she sleeps very
early...something like between 10pm to 11pm.
Sigh....but a lot of mixed signals.
Btw, I'm in my 20s this year. I have never met a girl who sends
me such mixed signals....so lost. Appreciate all kind
advice....thanks 