She like or don't like?

last SG · 2008-08-31T14:20:22+00:00

She's passive but when we meet up, it's a lot of fun. There are those who are passive and no fun when out together. So this gets me thinking about how I shou...

Jetdreamer SG

Then why you forcefully held onto her hand?

Si Liar........

haha then u r suggesting that i hold on to her hand despite the resistance?

alfagal SG

her life doesnt live ard u only...

y think so much...if she had a bad day then maybe she really did and wans space for herself lor..

next time then meet again..scared she run away from u?

alfagal SG

haha then u r suggesting that i hold on to her hand despite the resistance?

if u dun mind getting a slap on ur face

Jetdreamer SG

her life doesnt live ard u only...

y think so much...if she had a bad day then maybe she really did and wans space for herself lor..

next time then meet again..scared she run away from u?

No lah, just want to know where I stand, esp after the hand holding incident.

parn SG

haha then u r suggesting that i hold on to her hand despite the resistance?

Ya.....maybe you should have told her "resistance is futile, I want you NOW"

.........LOL...........

parn SG

haha then u r suggesting that i hold on to her hand despite the resistance?

Then when she doesn't resist anymore and LL let you hold onto her hand, act super apologetic and apologise profusely lor....then when she asked you why you wanted to hold onto her hand in the first place.....then IF YOU STILL DUNNO YOU NEED TO CONFESS TO HER, YOU ARE NOT A MAN.

LOL.................

Jetdreamer SG

LOL.................

Lol, you're getting a kick out of this hor?

Though I'm ok with grabbing the hand but I don't think it's so natural to forcefully hold on to it. Step by step, right?

parn SG

Lol, you're getting a kick out of this hor?

Though I'm ok with grabbing the hand but I don't think it's so natural to forcefully hold on to it. Step by step, right?

Of course this kind of things cannot wait for natural....it's not you're like playing musical chairs + russian roulette you know.

Cos other guys might not play by the same rules as you....step by step might get you a girl eventually, but she might not be the one you liked the most.

You need to sweep her off her feet.....swweeeep her offf herrrr feeeet!

Unless you're talking about arranged marriage, then you can take all the time you want.

jojobeach SG

Jet... suspense later becomes other guy potong jalan your dream gurl.

XxYaNxX SG

At this stage, seems like she only wants to be friends with you. Go on more dates with her and see what happens, time will tell.

charlize SG

What does she work as?

ChoCoChips SG

eh i didnt read u long post la, but i think u shud just ask her.

你喜欢我吗？

00king00 SG

tis gal will most likely be thinking...

"hmm, this guy seems to be interested in me, since I have nothing to do today anyway, no harm going out la, he seems like a nice guy"

few days later...

"haiz, today so much work, think don't want to meet him le, anyway i'm not very interested in him"

sms TS, went home shower etc, threw phone one side, not concerned at al about TS's response (in the meantime TS called)...

"ei, he called juz now.. wonder what he's up to again, call him back la"

call TS...

"haiz, asking me out again... i'm really tired, don't feel like meeting him"

conclusion: she is not interested in you. after a tiring day of work, gals will be on cloud nine receving a call from the guy she love/have a crush asking her out. quite obvious u are not the guy

then again, don't lose heart, for now she is clearly not interested, so don't try any funny romantic tricks, you'll definitely scare her away. Keep up this good friend status for now

domonkassyu SG

Nice feedback....the friend theory.

Any views from the other side of the coin?

Pls pls...I'm begging for views.

u are not beggin for views..u are beggin for ppl to support ur conviction of shes in love with me too..

julietta SG

ya i agree wif wat domon saying. u jus cant take the facts that she wan to be friend wif u. instead u hopping someone agree wif u tat she like u which i dun think is the truth.

so what if u manage to find pple to agree wif u that she like u. that is only to gif urself a piece of mind that she like u. but in reality sure will haf some difference. from my point of view u only go out wif her only 4 time n u wan her to be ur gf i dun think is possible lor.

RedizAlertz SG

I see no mixed signals.

All i see is tat she doesnt dislike u & she enjoys ur company. She doesnt feel offended with ur "bandit" approach.

She jus want to enjoy the process of courtship for she is aware tat when a couple is in a "steadies" status, the gal wil not be enjoying what she's enjoyin rite now. Show her ur sincerity, dun rush her.

And seriously...there really isnt any mixed signals.

Jetdreamer SG

Interesting replies! Esp the one by 00king00. lol

Cool, pple, thanks for all the feedback. I think she enjoys my company but not to the point of romantic interest yet.

Jetdreamer SG

I see no mixed signals.

All i see is tat she doesnt dislike u & she enjoys ur company. She doesnt feel offended with ur "bandit" approach.

And seriously...there really isnt any mixed signals.

Appreciate the encouragement

CrabbyShaSha SG

I see no mixed signals.

All i see is tat she doesnt dislike u & she enjoys ur company. She doesnt feel offended with ur "bandit" approach.

She jus want to enjoy the process of courtship for she is aware tat when a couple is in a "steadies" status, the gal wil not be enjoying what she's enjoyin rite now. Show her ur sincerity, dun rush her.

And seriously...there really isnt any mixed signals.

Pardon me, it is my opinion that since during courtship what a guy does that won a girl over, she will expect it even more in a steady relationship.

Otherwise during a relationship, if a girl doesn't see what she saw during courtship days, she gets disheartened, critical, naggy, and then the relationship spirals down from there.

CrabbyShaSha SG

Then there was one time, I told her, "give me your hand". I grabbed it and held it. However, she resisted and withdrew it. Then she mumbled to herself, "what are u doing?" I just laughed it off quite loudly too. (my god, what else??) Then she started smiling again and showed me her palm, telling me this is how I shd read palms.

By the way, I think this is rather cute. Leaves a lot to imagination... for the girl to wonder.

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