Hey guys. I need some advice. I've been seeing this girl called
XY for awhile now. Recently, we just officialized our status as gf
and bf. But the thing is, I found out through my sources is that
she's acutally attached to 30 year old guy called C. But C isn't in
Singapore for the next 6 months.
Also, she's staying at his place for now. And when I confronted
her about this, she said that's the ex-bf and she's renting a place
from him. Although she said this was her ex-bf, I received news
that they were actually planning to head to ROM end of this
year.
So right now, she thinks I'm completely unaware of the fact that
she's two-timing me and she doesn't know that I'm aware of the ROM.
My issue is how am I'm gonna put it across to her so that she
becomes completely honest with me.
The world has changed alot indeed, nowadays gf and bf status can
be "officialized"?
Anyway.....
Misogynist, you must know that even though you have
"officialized" your status as gf and bf, IT doesn't empowers you
with any special rights or authority over your gf. If you can't
understand and respect that, then you are just another possessive
bf. And I will not have any pity for you cos any girls who ends up
as your gf will ended up getting hurt and their innocent
destroyed.
Do you really love her in the first place? Why do you even want
to trick her to go into a relationship with you? Is there even a
need to "officialized" your relationship status between the both of
you? What are you afraid of? Are you telling us that your gf is NOT
ALLOWED to leave you? Why are you even plotting how you are going
to trap and force her to stay in a relationship with you? What does
this relationship means to you? Why do you strongly believed in
your sources but not your own gf? -> How can you say she's
committing infidelity when she's not even married to you and you
don't even own her like her parents?
All these questions are valid and they are also important for
not just you, but for all the guys out there.
Lastly, what is love to you? If love can be reasoned in a
relationship, then love will no longer be precious cos YOU have
already given love a value/price in your relationship.
Think carefully before you do something that you will regret
forever for the rest of your lives. Don't make the same mistakes
that alot of guys have done in their relationships. Cos you
definitely do not want to be one of them, and you are definitely
not going to be one of them.
You can make the right decision on your relationship, think
about the reason why you want to love your gf in the first
place.