Love/Money, which to choose?

last SG · 2008-09-03T19:39:47+00:00

give and take...give and take...

sataygal SG

If he really love you, he will work and suffer for you no matter how hard it is. For suffering for one you love contain elements of happiness too. Happiness that you are able to suffer for the one you love and do thing for him.her.

Choose A but, change A personality. Force him to work. I guess his weakness of not wanting to work is causing more unhapiness then not having money itself.

If both parties are working hard to help the other party, i am sure even though both are suffering, both are happy.

This is Love.
^^

:D thanks... gd advice.. clears my mind a bit... (=^_^=), think i'll tok 2 him n c hw :D

rainee SG

:D thanks... gd advice.. clears my mind a bit... (=^_^=), think i'll tok 2 him n c hw :D

It is very hard to change a guy's personality. Unless something really drastic happens...

And don't let others influence you into determining which one you want to be with. Listen to your heart. The world is not you. You are the one who is going to be with the guy you choose.

So choose wisely and most importantly, no regrets afterwards :)

angel7030 SG

i had a feeling the A is a irresponsible person, he is a happy go lucky kind of guy, and no no why this type of guy are always good looking and very sweet to girls, me also fall for one once..but damn, everyday said no money, no money..and sometime go missing in action. But we young gals sometimes like this type of guy, cos it feel like free and easy, they are not so strict on us, not thrifty and pathetic type as to always ask where are you, or who are you with..it is like a free love, so nice. But for long term, guess it is not going to be good, so i give up, break off.

I had also met B type of guy, abit straight forward, serious and worrying type, not good in sweet talk, like a nerd, but they are good in planing, and alway talk about the future,..advise me to study further, upgrade..and plan. Hell, what a date. But they are good guy with responsibility. Most young gals like me will not appreciate it, we just like to have fun.

Rednano SG

:D thanks... gd advice.. clears my mind a bit... (=^_^=), think i'll tok 2 him n c hw :D

u open legs for both already?

XxYaNxX SG

neither

maxsee SG

Frankly speaking young ppl will likely ask u to choose "A" which is love....but as u grow older and see the world more u will realize that love is not realistic at all......no matter wat bread more important...but best u ditch them both....and find someone who have a good future...and whereby u might cultivate some feelings for him....else if really no choice and cannot have any feelings...u might as well get a really rich but ugly one..LOL

Rednano SG

no money no honey...

parn SG

Choose A but, change A personality. Force him to work. I guess his weakness of not wanting to work is causing more unhapiness then not having money itself.

If both parties are working hard to help the other party, i am sure even though both are suffering, both are happy.

This is Love.
^^

Love is never about forcing any individual to change and neither it is about robbing any individual their individuality as a person.

If there is a need to force and impose changes on your loved ones, it means you does not love them at that point in time. You are just trying to make him into the person that you want to love.

Love is about acceptance, forgiving, serving but not self-realisation of self-sacrifice.

ChoCoChips SG

Love is never about forcing any individual to change and neither it is about robbing any individual their individuality as a person.

If there is a need to force and impose changes on your loved ones, it means you does not love them at that point in time. You are just trying to make him into the person that you want to love.

Love is about acceptance, forgiving, serving but not self-realisation of self-sacrifice.

wah isnt this the typical princess-y mentality?

ya i backstab people im spoilt im this this this im that that that, but so wad?

dats is me!

love me for who i am, nt wad u wan me to be.

Kuali Baba SG

Love is never about forcing any individual to change and neither it is about robbing any individual their individuality as a person.

If there is a need to force and impose changes on your loved ones, it means you does not love them at that point in time. You are just trying to make him into the person that you want to love.

Love is about acceptance, forgiving, serving but not self-realisation of self-sacrifice.

Human beings are incapable of that. They will always manipulate people to get what they want, or find the ones who do not need changing.

rainee SG

wah isnt this the typical princess-y mentality?

ya i backstab people im spoilt im this this this im that that that, but so wad?

dats is me!

love me for who i am, nt wad u wan me to be.

That's why you must find one you are already quite satisfied with...so don't go for those bitchy ones unless you prefer them and don't want them to change.

parn SG

Human beings are incapable of that. They will always manipulate people to get what they want, or find the ones who do not need changing.

Now then you realised love isn't easy to come by?

You can make someone fall in love with you and change for you easily, and you can also change yourself to suit that someone that you so-called "love" easily too.

But it is not easy when you are with the above mentioned "love", and you met someone who love you and you can love without the need to change.

So tell me, what kind of love would you choose to be the kind of love for you?

We are all capable of that, it's just that you haven't met the one that you can love without the need to change.

parn SG

wah isnt this the typical princess-y mentality?

ya i backstab people im spoilt im this this this im that that that, but so wad?

dats is me!

love me for who i am, nt wad u wan me to be.

No it isn't. I'm just absolute nia.......

darkensun SG

Choose B, If A can wait, cheat B money, Go back to A...now got money got love...only need to spread leg twice...If A cannot wait, you are still with B....

Kuali Baba SG

Now then you realised love isn't easy to come by?

You can make someone fall in love with you and change for you easily, and you can also change yourself to suit that someone that you so-called "love" easily too.

But it is not easy when you are with the above mentioned "love", and you met someone who love you and you can love without the need to change.

So tell me, what kind of love would you choose to be the kind of love for you?

We are all capable of that, it's just that you haven't met the one that you can love without the need to change.

I've known it for some time. People do not change, they only put on a front to impress or put off other people. Eventually the impression wears down or the said person wears out.

Waiting for someone who is "right for you" is just another way of getting what you want. There is no such thing as "love"...it's a lot more base than people would like to believe.

sataygal SG

a bit surprised to c so much comment-advices :D

anyway here's the twist...

actually im with B for almost 7 yrs alr..., life's gd..., no worries..., nv argue, more like spending time with ur buddy like tat, very boring though coz he's the guai2 type .... until i knw A (3 yrs ago)......, as angel7030 said, A IS fun, funny, handsome, sweettalk, but he do worry abt me, always ask where i go, call everyday etc....,

with A, happy, heart like flowery2 :P, but sometimes argue (mostly abt $$), he asked me to leave B n be with him; he asked me to make a choice...

but i dun hav the heart leaving B..., coz feel he's a bit kolian...., feel like its unfair to him....

but i knw i must make a choice..... which i cant ..........

("-_-)

ChoCoChips SG

a bit surprised to c so much comment-advices :D

anyway here's the twist...

with A, happy, heart like flowery2 :P, but sometimes argue (mostly abt $$), he asked me to leave B n be with him; he asked me to make a choice...

but i dun hav the heart leaving B..., coz feel he's a bit kolian...., feel like its unfair to him....

but i knw i must make a choice..... which i cant ..........

("-_-)

ya.

u like a more but u're sticking with b. this is fair to him.

very fair indeed.

Kuali Baba SG

a bit surprised to c so much comment-advices :D

anyway here's the twist...

with A, happy, heart like flowery2 :P, but sometimes argue (mostly abt $$), he asked me to leave B n be with him; he asked me to make a choice...You c

but i dun hav the heart leaving B..., coz feel he's a bit kolian...., feel like its unfair to him....

but i knw i must make a choice..... which i cant ..........

("-_-)

You can...you just don't want to, and you know that it's to be with neither guy.

parn SG

a bit surprised to c so much comment-advices :D

anyway here's the twist...

with A, happy, heart like flowery2 :P, but sometimes argue (mostly abt $$), he asked me to leave B n be with him; he asked me to make a choice...

but i dun hav the heart leaving B..., coz feel he's a bit kolian...., feel like its unfair to him....

but i knw i must make a choice..... which i cant ..........

("-_-)

Now then you tell us your evil plan....nbcb........if you want to abandon B, and you know it's not right, then can you please don't come up here and try to pick our brains for to justify your own sins?

Girls like you are the reason why alot of good guys were murdered.....yes, murdered by you.

You should be lucky that B didn't had plans to abandon you like what you are planning to do to him. Yes he is pathetic, but I won't be surprised if A also plot to abandon you for a better girl C in the future.

I want no part of your plot and neither do I wish to further comments on your post. I know LIFE will teach you a lesson and make you realise that you cannot survive in this world without morals.

Fs4751 SG

a bit surprised to c so much comment-advices :D

anyway here's the twist...

with A, happy, heart like flowery2 :P, but sometimes argue (mostly abt $$), he asked me to leave B n be with him; he asked me to make a choice...

but i dun hav the heart leaving B..., coz feel he's a bit kolian...., feel like its unfair to him....

but i knw i must make a choice..... which i cant ..........

("-_-)

wah now u only u declare...after all those advices....hmm.......

very bad.....l

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