If you choose to believe that as your true love, then you are
already denying yourself from true love even there's a girl out
there who truly have true love for you.
It's always good to have a correct perspective and understanding
of true love, so that you can identify it when it comes upon
you.
Let go of your definition of your version of true love if you
find it to be negative and hopeless, and empty that space so that
when the real true love befallen upon you, you will know it cos it
will automatically occupy that empty space in your heart called
true love.
And you will know for sure when you have found true love.
When that time comes, please don't forget to share it with the
people here. They need alot of help in their hopeless worlds.

I don't see how it can be any other way, but I've accepted it,
since one can't divorce personal gain (including outcomes such as
"feeling good" and the assurance that one does the right thing)
from any deed and it benefits both persons.
I am a part of it and yet aware of it at the same time.
*Grammatical mistake edited, refer to solea's post for original
text