to me honesty is paramount in any relationship. no one can ever
make decisions on another person's behalf. the best one can do is
to endow the other with all the information the other needs, and
let the other decide what to do next. concealing the truth in order
not to hurt others is a sham and a lie working under the guise of
self-preservation.
let your other half know all there is to know about you, and
whatever happens next is up to your other half. respect your other
half as a rational, thinking adult.
the result of telling everything to your girl, you will lose the
girl.Everyone have little secret, why do you just give her a little
boundary for imagination. For every male, should be a little smart,
anyway gal not looking for, honest man, but man should cheer her
up.