Actually after confession and the ability to remains as friends
depends on hw the 2 individual look ,their perspective and maturity
.
I have 2 gd incidents like this .
1st gal is a very gd buddy , we had mutual understanding n cool
headed abt this . We remain strong n friendship is steel .
2nd gal , she is e more outgoing type , thus attracting more guy
friends . I fall for her twice in fact .
1st
time the awkward stage sets in , of cos there is also emotional
hurt in me . I took abt 2-3mths recovery time to initiate contact
with her again , we became great frens again . 2nd time i have no
idea y fall again , so the same cycle repeats , except that i didnt
screw it up as much as 1st. All the while i didnt confess , but
this time the gal distance herself for good and we nv really got
back since .
To me , i find that gals r much more click-able to me than guys
. I tend to have this "cherishing" behaviour towards my gal frens
more than guy frens . Probably thats y i can retain n strengthen
the friendship.I m still exploring ways to get back contact with
2nd gal , becos i really feel that our friendship is worth it for
me to try to get it back but of cos she has to feel the same
.