Singaporeans are generally complacent. The danger of this is
that it affects us not only in our career advancement, but also in
terms of our romance i.e. our bgr.
Example:
In the world of work, a lot of big companies lose their
competitive edge that comes from hard work, research, planning,
taking risks, because they become too comfortable and and stop
looking for innovative ways to stay ahead of competition.
In a relationship, a couple loses that spark they get when they
first started off a romance because they get too comfortable as
time goes by. They stop wanting to get to know each other better
and stop trying out new things, hence their relationship stale and
instead of looking into their relationship, they mistakenly think
that the "pasture is greener on the other side." Therefore, the
vicious cycle of unfulfillment no matter what relationship they
land themselves in.
Do you agree?
I think in many things in life... it's quite similar also
rt?
E.g. 1 - New job: first few months, very on the ball. After a
while, slack. Years later, backside itchy & look for new
job.
E.g. 2 - New car: first few months up to a year, every day
sayang car. Check for scratches every day. Some time later, sian
liao... wanna change car.
Of course, some things are more impt than others. In a
relationship, the challenging part is to rekindle the relationship
with new excitement. Can u think of any examples?
