A common trait of a winner, is not afraid of failures.
Smart girls are attracted to winners, that's part of our
survival instinct.
So when we see a guy , who is afraid of rejection and failures..
we categorise him as a loser, and will only accept them as
friends.
Not all, but there are many sg guys really can't make
it.
So when we see a guy , who
is afraid of rejection and failures.. we categorise him as a loser,
and will only accept them as friends.
This is true. To me it
depends, I may not accept all as friends.
Sort of true 
that is just being unfriendly.
Well, you know, sometimes there's just only so much energy one
has for people. Just imagine if you are a popular star, can you
invest so much energy into all who like you? As much as you'd like
to be friends with them, you also need to take care not to neglect
your family and loved ones.
It's like spreading kaya. If you only have a certain amount on
hand and you need to spread it, the more you spread on other bread,
the less you have.
Jo,
Thanks so much for your suggestion!
I actually took the conventional method and chatted with her. It
turned out really well.
In the end, I got her number and lunch date.
I felt so much better now, not because of the date, but because
I have got off something which has been bugging me for a week.
Jiayou TS!
